PHYLLIS B. MARRIOTT, 1976 National Mother of the Year, 1979-1982 National President, and Honorary National President, American Mothers, Inc.® . Phyllis Brown Marriott died peacefully in her sleep at age 91 on Saturday, December 13, 2008. She was born March 8, 1917 in Ogden, Utah, to Grant and Pearl Brown. She was orphaned two years later with the death of her parents in the flu pandemic. She graduated from Ogden High School, Weber State University, and the University of Utah, where she was a Chi Omega. This is where she honed her powerful writing and speaking skills which helped her serve others.
Phyllis married Russell Stewart Marriott in the Salt Lake City, Utah, LDS Temple in 1939. They moved to Washington DC where they worked for his brother Bill Marriott in the Hot Shoppes Restaurants (Marriott Corporation) and lived in Kensington, Maryland for 52 years. With three boys she was a wonderful mother and the consummate teacher of wholesome values and principles. She was "always there" for sports, religious and academic activities.
In 1974 she was selected DC and National Mother of the Year by American Mothers, Inc.® She became the visionary president and was Honorary President until her death. This was her 34 year love affair with the women of America.
As Phyllis became a national woman's leader, she gave commencement addresses and received honorary doctorate degrees at Midway College in Kentucky and in Utah, Salt Lake Community College, Dixie College and Weber State University.
Phyllis is survived by her children: Russell Jr. (Dava) Salt Lake City; Douglas (Gina) Provo, and Philip (Cheryl) Mapleton, Utah; and 16 grandchildren and 32 great-grandchildren; her sister, Barbara Orser Olsen of Rexburg, Idaho. She was preceded in death by her husband Russell of Marriott, Utah in 2001. Excerpts taken from The Salt Lake Tribune, Obituaries, Published in The Salt Lake Tribune on 12/19/08
NANCY D. HAWK, 1989 National Mother of the Year, 1997-1999 National President, American Mothers, Inc.®
After Nancy Dinwiddie Hawk was named the United States Mother of the Year, a reporter wrote that chronicling her remarkable life in politics, historic preservation and law was more appropriate for a biographer than for a journalist. That was in 1989. Her impressive story got more so after that.
Mrs. Hawk, who died Friday in hospice care, was a woman of purpose and drive. After rearing nine successful children, she enrolled at the College of Charleston to finish the undergraduate degree she had begun at the University of Virginia. Then, she commuted between Charleston and law school in Columbia. And before it became routine to see female lawyers, her shingle was hanging on Broad Street.
What Nancy Hawk touched, Nancy Hawk influenced.
She worked to save historic Snee Farm, to shape plans for the Crosstown to mitigate damage to the peninsula, to restore the county courthouse, build the judicial center and organize the Charlestowne Neighborhood Association.
She wasn't afraid to take on controversy. She opposed Charleston Place and supported Lodge Alley Inn. Both were built.
When her two bids for elected office failed — a 1975 race against Joseph P. Riley Jr. for mayor and a 1976 race against T. Dewey Wise for state Senate — she became vice chairman of the state Republican Party.
She later said she probably wasn't suited for politics because the "gamesmanship" that goes along with it didn't fit with her straightforward manner.
Mrs. Hawk was born in Charlottesville, Va., but she was thoroughly committed to Charleston where she moved in 1951 with her husband, Dr. John C. Hawk.
First (Scots) Presbyterian Church. The Girl Scouts. Charleston Civic Ballet. Charleston Opera Company. The Christian Family Y. The American College of the Bulding Arts. The Council of Urban Quality. H.E.L.P. Piccolo Spoleto. Meals on Wheels. The Lowcountry Open Land Trust. The Charles Pinckney National Historic Site. Parents Anonymous. Mason Prep school. All were strengthened by her hard work and support. In 1993, she received the Order of the Palmetto.
She once told The Post and Courier, "It's hard to live with the knowledge that something happened because you didn't act." Surely she didn't face sleepless nights on that account.
Charleston is a better place because of Nancy Hawk. The city has lost a leader of strength and character. Taken from the Charleston Post & Courier.
ELLEN Q. AHLGREN, 1992 New Hampshire Mother of the Year and the Founder of ABC Quilts. 
In 1988, news of thousands of abandoned HIV-infected babies living in hospitals made New Hampshire grandmother Ellen Quincy Ahlgren went to give the infants love like she gave her own family. She succeeded - through homemade quilts.
Mrs. Ahlgren, a retired teacher and mental health counselor, founded ABC Quilts of Northwood, N.H., and harnessed quilters' needles worldwide while raising awareness of AIDS prevention.
In almost 20 years, volunteer quilters ranging from preteens to senior citizens made more than 1 million cozy blankets for children living as far away as Moscow.
"It carries vibes of love and comfort; it helps the children feel better," Mrs. Ahlgren told the Miami Herald in 1991, of the "blankees" swaddling sick children in Florida hospitals that year.
Mrs. Ahlgren, of Concord, who was named New Hampshire Mother of the Year in 1992, died of pancreatic cancer April 18 at the Concord Regional Visiting Nurse Association's Hospice House in Concord, N.H. She was 90.
"She was a wonderful lady," said John T. Linville II of Wolfeboro, N.H., who began volunteering for ABC in 1999. "She created what ended up being a worldwide charity from her front room in Northwood."
Operating on a shoestring budget from donated space at a church, ABC Quilts could not raise enough money and had to shut down about three years ago, he said. Many of the group's quilters still make blankets for local hospitals. Volunteers made about 500 last year.
"We patched together the old network. They didn't want to stop. The kernel of Ellen's vision is still alive in New Hampshire," he said.
Mrs. Ahlgren, who raised five children, was born in Manchester, N.H., and later moved to Stoneham. Her father, Frank, was an insurance salesman and was a descendant of Harvard College president Josiah Quincy.
Mrs. Ahlgren studied in Maine at Nasson College in 1940, and was determined to be a career woman until Pearl Harbor changed her mind, according to an essay she wrote for a writing workshop.
Mrs. Ahlgren was known as an optimist, an organizer, and "a natural marketer," according to her family and friends.
Nothing was impossible in her eyes," said her daughter, Janet Ahlgren of Winchester. "You just hadn't figured out a way yet."
When her children were young, Mrs. Ahlgren gave them lists of chores to accomplish each Saturday. "From an early age, we learned that you belonged by participating," Janet said. "The other thing that went with that was 'finish the job.' "
Mrs. Ahlgren went back to school in the late 1960s and earned her undergraduate degree in 1970 at the University of New Hampshire, followed by a master's degree in education there in 1979. She taught special education in New Hampshire public schools.
A student of psychology, Mrs. Ahlgren became friends with grief expert psychologist Elisabeth Kubler-Ross in the '70s and helped found an early hospice in New Hampshire.
"She was persistent," said her friend Doris "Granny D" Haddock, 99, of Dublin, N.H. "When she got an idea, nothing would stop her. She just loved to be doing things, making things."
Haddock, a liberal activist who walked across America at age 90 to promote campaign finance reform, said her seven decades of friendship with Mrs. Ahlgren survived their political differences. Mrs. Ahlgren was more conservative and voted as an independent.
"She was always interested in what you were doing and gave good advice. She was a leader," Haddock said.
Mrs. Ahlgren was honored many times for her work with ABC Quilts. She received the Granite State Award from UNH for outstanding service and a "Hero" award from the Pediatric AIDS Foundation.
She wrote a kids' guide to making quilts for at-risk children and promoted the program as a method for teaching about personal responsibility.
"They're not just doing something with pipe cleaners," she said in one interview. "The project teaches students why the damage happened to the babies in the first place."
In addition to her daughter, Mrs. Ahlgren leaves another daughter, Leslie Homans of Belmont; sons David of Cardiff, Calif.; John of Portsmouth, N.H., and Stephen of Sanbornton, N.H.; seven grandchildren, and a great-grandson. Excerpts taken from the Boston Globe.
DR. SOPHIA BAMFORD, 1990 Georgia Mother of the Year, died peacefully in her sleep, at her home in Tignall, Georgia, on Mother's Day, May 10, 2009. She received B.S. and M.S. degrees from the University of Georgia in1932 and 1933 respectively. She taught at Middle Georgia College in Cochran, at Grenada College for Women in MS, and Tignall and Washington, GA, high schools.
After World War II, she trained at the Medical College of Georgia in Exfoliative Cytology, learning techniques for microscopic detection of cancer. In 1953, she was a staff cytologist at New England Medical Center Hospitals. Later, she attended Tufts University School of Medicine and received her degree in 1961. On behalf of the Department of State, Agency for International Development, she established cytology laboratories in Jamaica and Ecuador and she was a consultant for the National Institutes of Health.
In 1973, Dr. Bamford moved back to Wilkes County to practice medicine, during which time she served on the Board of the Georgia Division of the American Cancer Society and was nationally recognized for her work in organizing free cancer clinics for men and women. After retiring in 1987, she was active in preserving the area's historical legacy, establishing the North Wilkes Lilbrary and Museum, and organizing a lecture series on Georgia history, for which she received the Georgia Humanities Award.
Dr. Bamford was actively involved in many organizations as well as Independence Methodist Church, Tignall, where she taught Sunday School and played the organ. As long as she was able to drive, she attended Georgia Mothers. Her daughter says that her mother loved Georgia Mothers and was always interested in receiving information from us. She added that the family thought it most appropriate that her mother died on Mothers Day.
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by Connell Branan