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Mothers of the Year

Meet the 2025 Mother of the Year® award recipients—women from diverse backgrounds and experiences across the nation recognized for their work, resilience and commitment to family and community. These mothers were chosen through a national nomination and selection process led by American Mothers, which has had the honor of searching for and selecting the Mother of the Year® in every state, district and territory in the country since 1935.

These honored mothers will represent their respective home states at the American Mothers National Convention this April 24-26 in San Juan, Puerto Rico. At this convention, one state Mother of the Year® will be selected as an ambassador for American Mothers and serve as the 2025 National Mother of the Year®.

Join us in congratulating each of these amazing mothers!

To view a 2025 Mom of the year, select a mother’s name or scroll down the page.

Lisa Zanglin, Alabama >

Genoveva Diaz, Arizona >

Joslynn Skelton, California  >

Tiffany Grainger, Colorado >

Kaytra Macdonald, Delaware >

Charlotte Hampton Carter, District of Columbia >

Dr. Sonya McKinzie, Georgia >

Andria Tupola, Hawaii >

Stacy Sericati, Idaho >

Rebecca Erlemeier, Iowa >

Monica Charette, Maine >

Dr. Renee Allen, Maryland >

Shantel Dudley, Minnesota >

Marcy Bursac, Missouri >

Emily Christiansen, Montana >

Carole Kinlow, Nebraska >

Jamie Nadeau, New Hampshire >

Sibel Akdogmus, New Jersey >

Christina Fanitzi, New York >

Lindsey Burkhardt, North Dakota >

Spring Gray, Oklahoma >

Yarelis Colorado-Ruiz, Puerto Rico >

Lauren DeFilippo, South Carolina >

Skyla Nicholas, South Dakota >

Lindy Wynne, Tennessee >

Tiffany Finley, Texas >

Janalyn Christiansen, Utah >

Kathleen Lynch, Vermont >

Jessica Necessary, Virginia >

Barbara Watson, West Virginia >

Patricia Ehlen, Wisconsin >

For general media inquiries or to set up an interview with a Mother of the Year®, email news@americanmothers.org. Nominations for Mother of the Year® are accepted annually beginning Mother’s Day (2nd Sunday in May) until September 15.

Lisa Zanglin, Alabama >

Genoveva Diaz, Arizona >

Joslynn Skelton, California  >

Tiffany Grainger, Colorado >

Kaytra Macdonald, Delaware >

Charlotte Hampton Carter, District of Columbia >

Dr. Sonya McKinzie, Georgia >

Andria Tupola, Hawaii >

Stacy Sericati, Idaho >

Annette Kimberlin, Indiana >

Rebecca Erlemeier, Iowa >

Monica Charette, Maine >

Dr. Renee Allen, Maryland >

Shantel Dudley, Minnesota >

Marcy Bursac, Missouri >

Emily Christiansen, Montana >

Carole Kinlow, Nebraska >

Jamie Nadeau, New Hampshire >

Sibel Akdogmus, New Jersey >

Christina Fanitzi, New York >

Lindsey Burkhardt, North Dakota >

Spring Gray, Oklahoma >

Yarelis Colorado-Ruiz, Puerto Rico >

Lauren DeFilippo, South Carolina >

Skyla Nicholas, South Dakota >

Lindy Wynne, Tennessee >

Tiffany Finley, Texas >

Janalyn Christiansen, Utah >

Kathleen Lynch, Vermont >

Jessica Necessary, Virginia >

Barbara Watson, West Virginia >

Patricia Ehlen, Wisconsin >

For general media inquiries or to set up an interview with a Mother of the Year®, email news@americanmothers.org. Nominations for Mother of the Year® are accepted annually beginning Mother’s Day (2nd Sunday in May) until September 15.

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Lisa Zanglin

Alabama

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Lisa Zanglin is a retired senior Army officer, with a doctorate in Educational Leadership, and has worked in higher education for over twenty years. During her military career, she was a professor for the Air Force Air Command and Staff College, the Army Infantry School, and the Army Logistics College. After retirement from the military, she was CEO of a government contracting company, faculty at Auburn University, and Dean of Academic Affairs for Air University’s Eaker Center. She continues to teach for the Air Force through Arizona State University and is a consultant for higher education in the areas of accreditation, faculty development, and curriculum design. She lives in Alabama with her husband, a Labrador retriever and Australian Kelpie. Her two grown children provided the inspiration for a recent book to help students and parents of future college students. Board member for over ten years: Montgomery Humane Shelter. We work to find homes for shelter animals and raise awareness on issues affecting animals. I personally orchestrated the risk and evacuation plan for the shelter in case of an emergency since we are in a hurricane and high tornado area. United States Tennis Association member for over 15 years. In addition to promoting fitness and sports we also work with handicapped athletes and promote wheelchair tennis. College Professor: I have taught thousands of students and recently published a book called: Dirty Little College Secrets: Getting In, Staying In and Graduating. This book combines experience, expertise, and talking to numerous parents and students over the past ten years. The purpose of this book is to help students and parents answer some basic questions about the college admittance process, requirements, scholarships, grades, class selection, graduation, and other topics that may help a student graduate. It’s not a book on how to “beat the system” or tell the readers how to cheat, but there are loopholes that may enhance academic results and provide debt-free financing for college
Everyone fails and those who learn from failure succeed in the future.
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Genoveva Diaz

Arizona

BIO

Genoveva Diaz was born in Oakland, California. At the age of six, her parents decided to return to Mexico, where Genoveva grew up deeply connected to her roots, culture, and traditions. She studied Public Relations and worked at Mexico’s second most important university, contributing to key projects in the fields of culture, education, and art. During this time, Genoveva married and had three children: Monserrat, Estefanía, and Christopher. However, in 2009, facing the dissolution of her marriage and concerned about the increasing insecurity in Mexico, she made the brave decision to return to the United States for her children’s safety and better future. As a single mother, she became a teacher, which allowed her to match her children’s school schedules. Genoveva became a folkloric dance teacher, a role that led her to participate on Hispanic television in Tucson. She now collaborates with international foundations that aim to recognize change-makers and assist migrants.
My parenting philosophy has developed through experience and continuous learning. Like many parents, I initially followed what I had learned from my own parents, applying what I believed was right and leaving aside what I thought was unnecessary. However, as I raised my three children, Monserrat, Estefanía, and Christopher, I learned that each child is unique and requires a parenting approach adapted to their personality and needs. I remember a key moment with my daughter Monserrat, when she was just starting to make her own decisions, and I realized that she was an independent being. This was the first step in understanding that my children would have to make their own decisions, and my role would be to guide and support them, not control them. Over time, I learned that being a mother also meant being fair and resolving conflicts equitably, especially between my two daughters, who often fought and gave different versions of each situation. When I moved to the United States, I learned the importance of listening to children, avoiding physical punishment, and fostering a relationship based on mutual respect and understanding. A crucial part of my parenting has been keeping our family traditions, culture, and language alive. My greatest wish was for my children to be bilingual and able to communicate with their family in Mexico. Along the way, my uncle, who has always been a supportive figure in our lives, helped me raise my children in an environment full of love, understanding, and tolerance, especially regarding gender diversity.
One of the activities that has profoundly impacted my life is my work as a teacher. Through my job, I have come to understand the challenges that today’s youth face, which has made me reflect on my own role as a mother. I constantly ask myself if I am providing my children with a safe home, full of love and values. Additionally, I strive to be an example for my students, offering them not only a quality education but also a safe environment where they can grow and develop. However, being a teacher is not always enough to meet financial needs, which led me to seek other ways to generate income. I became certified to care for adults with disabilities, allowing me to offer a home and family to someone with disabilities while teaching my children values of respect, tolerance, and love for others. This experience has greatly enriched my family, teaching us to value differences and be more compassionate. Another significant experience has been my participation as a folkloric dance teacher. Through this work, I have been able to engage with my community, which led me to collaborate with a television channel and eventually with an international organization that recognizes Hispanic migrants in the United States. In 2023, I had the honor of organizing an event to receive the replica of Mexico’s Independence Liberty Bell in Tucson, a milestone that brought together merchants, entrepreneurs, and government representatives. Currently, I am facing a battle with cancer, which has led me to reflect on my life, my role as a mother and professional, and my impact on society. I strive to leave a positive legacy for my children, instilling in them the values and tools they need to become agents of change in their community.

Tiffany Grainger

Colorado

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Tiffany is a former NYPD police officer who currently teaches at a university, while also working as a cold case investigator for a local law enforcement agency. Tiffany volunteers at her church and also volunteers for a non-profit that seeks to end human trafficking, one community at a time. Tiffany and her husband are rearing two boys (ages 5 and 6) and enjoy hearing the variety of in-depth conversations their boys have throughout the day. They often joke that they could be millionaires, if only they could record videos of the interactions their children have with each other and others throughout the day. Tiffany obtained her private pilot license years ago and while she hasn’t been able to use it for a while, she still enjoys flying airplanes (her preference would be as the pilot, but she also enjoys being a passenger). She also enjoys reading and horseback riding.
I believe parents are called to “train their children in the way they should go” and that training goes beyond simply disciplining them when they do the wrong thing. We are to show them right from wrong and are to be an example they follow. Every decision that is made can have a deep and lasting impact on the future of each child the parent rears. If we do not take the time to thoughtfully and prayerfully consider the impact we are having, it becomes easy to allow things in the lives of our children (or child) to distract and take them down an unhealthy path.  We are also called to be stewards and, for parents, part of that stewardship includes carefully managing our children. Merriam-Webster defines stewardship as “the conducting, supervising, or managing of something. Especially: the careful and responsible management of something entrusted to one’s care. ” I love this definition and how it relates to rearing children. God has entrusted these gifts into our lives and we must ensure that we carefully and responsibly manage these precious gifts that have been entrusted to our care. This means we must equip our children with the tools they need to make wise choices and to be successful, confident, honest, and upright citizens who will have a positive impact on their communities as they grow and leave home to become independent adults. This also includes being able to hold meaningful conversation and keeping Philippians 4:8 at the forefront of our conversations.
1. Volunteer work  I volunteer at my church, leading the presentation team, leading a small group with my husband, and volunteering in other areas. I also volunteer as President of the Board for Oasis USA, which seeks to end human trafficking, one community at a time, but had been fairly dormant for years due to various reasons. Over the last year I built it from virtually nothing to having an incredible team of volunteers who worked hard to build a brand-new website, built social media impact, laid the groundwork for a motorcycle rally, and obtained grants for Oasis India (a sister branch of Oasis USA). I also work as an anti-human trafficking consultant, sometimes in a paid capacity, but frequently in a volunteer capacity. 2. Other Work In addition to volunteering, I also work two regular (paid) jobs; as a Professor and as a Civilian Criminal Investigator. As a Professor, I encourage students to think things through carefully, do their own research, not be swayed by social media or mainstream media and to draw their own conclusions. My second job is investigating cold sexual assault cases and I believe my work benefits the community by letting victims know they are seen and heard, while also bringing offenders to a point of accountability. 3. Parenting One of the biggest impacts on my life was having children. Having grown up going to church and having faith an integral part of my life, I knew that when I had children, I would first and foremost want to focus on ensuring they were “trained in the way they should go” and would want to ensure that they have a solid faith foundation. There are challenges and struggles, but there is also the joy of hearing your 6-year-old holding his own in a conversation about God with a 20-something year old. Our children aren’t perfect, but they were perfectly created by God, who loves them and has called them according to His purpose and I am so very blessed to get to be a steward in the lives of my precious young men.

Charlotte Hampton Carter

District of Columbia

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Charlotte was born on May 15, 1951 in Culloden, Georgia to the late Hillard Hampton, a World War II veteran and Daisy Grant Hampton, a stay-at-home mom where they raised Charlotte and five other children. She graduated from Hubbard High School with the highest GPA of her class of over 100 students and Trinity College, Magna Cum Laud. She worked at the Central Intelligence Agency for almost 40 years and retired as an intelligence officer. Charlotte has volunteered and worked on various outreach endeavors to include The New School of Dance Art, The Congressional Awards Program for Youth, The Friends of the Woodridge Library, substitute teaching and Mount Sinai Baptist Church members’ leader. She was married to the late Jerry Carter where his daughter Gladys was joined in the family by their three biological children . She has three grandchildren and four great grandchildren.
Charlotte has somewhat of a traditional attitude toward parenting (Parents lead. Children follow). As her parenting style evolved over the years. She allowed her children to take the lead in some of their decision making. Her middle child exhibited the ”middle child syndrome” of competitiveness. She learned fast and often helped her siblings with various problems. To this day as a practicing attorney, she is still going strong in this role and also helps Charlotte with her household. Charlotte has heard it often said, ”treat children the same” . She disagrees with this to some extent. While children should have equal access to love and acceptance, they vary in temperament and needs. Her older child is referred to as her “cloud child” . She is an artist who dislikes confrontation or pressure. She shuts down if pushed to do more than she wants to do. She teaches art and creates beautiful displays at her school. She is glad to follow and take instruction about her art as long as she is left alone to do so. I had to be careful when teaching her as a child to let her go at a slower pace when learning. Also, Charlotte believes children learn by example and experience; that behavior has consequences (good and bad). She exposed them to different cultures through activities and exchanges in Russia, China and Spain which gave them a broader perspective on life. Charlotte believes that children must be loved and with guidance allowed to live.
Charlotte’s as a leader in her church ministry is challenging and rewarding. Having over 70 members carved out of the church’s membership to provide spiritual and physical support. This has been rewarding to Charlotte over the years in helping others. She has led this group for about ten years right after her husband passed. Being busy helped her get through the grieving process. She held fellowship gatherings, Zoom meetings, outings to movies and restaurants. And these interactions became a source of strength when members reciprocated their gratitude when her son was shot 11 times from mistaken identity and survived. He became a paraplegic and was in the hospital for five months. Her members supported her with prayer, check ins, food and genuine concern. Being her son’s primary caregiver has reduced some of her support to her members, but it has not reduced the heartfelt concern they continue to exhibit toward her. They step in and take on some duties to keep the group informed and functioning. This ministry has given back more than she can ever give it.

Kaytra Macdonald

Delaware

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Kaytra Macdonald is a dedicated community advocate with a passion for serving others. Her journey in community outreach began in 2012, when she combined her expertise in couponing with her desire to give back, transforming discounts into essential gifts for those in need. Over the past seven years, she has actively volunteered for various organizations, including Relay for Life and Code Purple, where her dedication earned her the role of Food Coordinator.In addition to her volunteer work, Kaytra provides ongoing support to families and individuals facing difficult circumstances. As a Family Peer Support for Champions for Children’s Mental Health, she mentors’ families with children with mental disabilities, offering guidance and encouragement. She also regularly organizes giveaways for women affected by domestic violence and provides meals from her home twice a month. In 2022 she started volunteering with Cornerstone Community Center and quickly reshaped the way they provided service to the community. She is now the force advisor for the Youth tobacco program. Kaytra delivers meals to the seniors in the community and assists with the chair exercise for the seniors. Kaytra’s commitment to helping others extends to her social media presence, where she operates “Kaytra’s Resource Room” on Facebook. Through this platform, she rapidly responds to those in need and encourages people from all walks of life to utilize her free services. Her tireless efforts, combined with her nurturing spirit, make her a cherished asset to her community.But above all, Kaytra is a biological mother to one son, a grandmother to one grandson, and a surrogate mother to multiple children in her community and neighbor. Kaytra goes out of her way to ensure that the youth in her community are loved and cared for as if they were her own. A number of children lovingly and respectfully call her “Mom”
My parenting philosophy revolves around empathy, empowerment, and community engagement. Based on my work as a Family Peer Support for Champions For Children’s Mental Health and my dedication to helping families, I value fostering independence while supporting personal growth. My involvement in community outreach and caregiving shows how I prioritize a nurturing environment that encourages self-sufficiency, mental wellness, and mutual support. I fully support and advocate for a compassionate, patient, and individualized approach to parenting.
As a mother and a dedicated member of my community, I have been involved in several activities that have deeply impacted my life and positively influenced both my family and community. Through Kaytra’s Resource Room which I run through Facebook, I am able to provide essential services, resources, and meals to families in need. This outreach has brought a sense of purpose to my family, as we work together to support others. It has taught my children the importance of empathy, community, and giving back. As a Family Peer Support for Champions for Children’s Mental Health, I have the privilege of mentoring families facing the unique challenges of raising children with mental health needs. This role has strengthened my ability to advocate for my own children’s mental well-being while helping others navigate their journeys. And finally, my work as a force advisor with Cornerstone Community Center. This activity allows me to engage with youth and their families in our community and empower them to share their learned knowledge with their peers. As a result, I am able to show my now grown child the importance of education, community, and personal growth and development.

Dr. Sonya McKinzie

Georgia

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Dr. Sonya McKinzie is a dedicated advocate, author, and leader in the fight against domestic violence. Born and raised in Brunswick, GA, she is a proud single mother to her daughter, whom she considers her greatest gift. Dr. McKinzie’s journey is one of resilience and transformation, having overcome domestic violence, PTSD, and anxiety. In 2003, she moved to Marietta, GA, to rebuild her life. Her pursuit of higher education led her to earn degrees in Business Administration, Business Management, and Human Services Counseling, along with multiple certifications in fields such as Victims Advocacy and Corporate Leadership. Her commitment to education and personal growth is a testament to her belief in the power of knowledge. Dr. McKinzie is the Founder and Executive Director of ThriveHER Incorporated, an organization dedicated to empowering women and raising awareness about domestic violence. She has authored 14 books focused on healing and recovery from trauma. Her work with the Marsy’s Law Movement has been instrumental in changing legislation to better protect victims of abuse. In recognition of her humanitarian efforts, Dr. McKinzie received an honorary doctorate in Humanitarianism from GIA. She also received the Presidential Lifetime Achievement award in September 2024 for her hard work, community commitment and passion for giving back. Her vision for ThriveHER includes hosting conferences, creating educational materials, and providing resources to support survivors. Through her leadership, she continues to inspire and empower women to reclaim their voices and thrive. Dr. McKinzie’s story is one of tenacity and hope, making her a beacon of strength for many.
Dr. Sonya McKinzie is a dedicated advocate, author, and leader in the fight against domestic violence. Born and raised in Brunswick, GA, she is a proud single mother to her daughter, whom she considers her greatest gift. Dr. McKinzie’s journey is one of resilience and transformation, having overcome domestic violence, PTSD, and anxiety. In 2003, she moved to Marietta, GA, to rebuild her life. Her pursuit of higher education led her to earn degrees in Business Administration, Business Management, and Human Services Counseling, along with multiple certifications in fields such as Victims Advocacy and Corporate Leadership. Her commitment to education and personal growth is a testament to her belief in the power of knowledge. Dr. McKinzie is the Founder and Executive Director of ThriveHER Incorporated, an organization dedicated to empowering women and raising awareness about domestic violence. She has authored 14 books focused on healing and recovery from trauma. Her work with the Marsy’s Law Movement has been instrumental in changing legislation to better protect victims of abuse. In recognition of her humanitarian efforts, Dr. McKinzie received an honorary doctorate in Humanitarianism from GIA. She also received the Presidential Lifetime Achievement award in September 2024 for her hard work, community commitment and passion for giving back. Her vision for ThriveHER includes hosting conferences, creating educational materials, and providing resources to support survivors. Through her leadership, she continues to inspire and empower women to reclaim their voices and thrive. Dr. McKinzie’s story is one of tenacity and hope, making her a beacon of strength for many.

Andria Tupola

Hawaii

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Andria was born in Hawaii and graduated high school at just 17. Through hard work and determination, she earned early acceptance to Brigham Young University in Provo. In 2003, she served a church mission in Venezuela, where she became fluent in Spanish and developed a deep passion for service. After completing her master’s degree, Andria taught music at the University of Hawaiʻi. In 2011, she founded a nonprofit to support her community. As she became more involved, many encouraged her to run for office. She served four years as a state legislator, ran for Governor in 2018. In 2021, she earned her doctorate and started her own consulting business. She also started her first term as a Honolulu City Councilmember. In 2024, she was reelected to a second term (2025-2028). Andria is a proud mother of two daughters, 16 and 17, who continue to inspire her.
Motherhood has been one of my greatest joys for the past 17 years, raising my two wonderful daughters. My approach to parenting is deeply shaped by my background in music and leadership training—two key areas that have influenced my philosophy. At its core, my parenting philosophy revolves around teaching, modeling, and reflection. Teaching requires me to stay engaged and continuously build my own understanding. I love reading insightful books and learning from positive role models. I’ve taught my daughters practical skills like singing, playing piano, leading meetings, writing agendas, conducting choirs, reading music, studying scriptures, prioritizing schedules, and communicating effectively with peers and teachers. Modeling is not only a leadership principle but also a fundamental part of music instruction. Just as a vocal teacher demonstrates a concept before having the student try it, I model tasks for my daughters and then encourage them to step out of their comfort zones and try on their own. This approach empowers them to take ownership and grow independently. Finally, reflection is essential for feedback and growth. I’ve taught my daughters to journal as a way to reflect on their experiences, articulate their thoughts, and assess their progress. I encourage them to use their voices, express what they understood, and share how they felt when trying something new. Their reflections allow me to adjust my guidance, either challenging them further or providing more repetition until they gain confidence.
Since childhood, community service has been central in my life. I first got involved through my church, and later, college student government expanded my understanding of service. While on an LDS mission in Venezuela, I realized that serving people I didn’t know could deepen my love for them. This passion led me to start my own nonprofit in 2011, focused on making a difference in others’ lives. Three of my key initiatives include the Young Women Prom Event, Community Cleanups, and a homeless outreach program. The Young Women Prom Event, which I started in 2015, was created to celebrate healthy relationships in our homes, community, and especially among youth. The event promotes awareness of domestic violence, featuring a fashion show with 10 young women from the community to boost their confidence, and provides hundreds of prom dresses and prizes. What began with 100 guests in a school cafeteria has grown over the past decade to host over 500 attendees. Community Cleanups are another passion of mine. Since 2015, I have organized more than 26 cleanups across Oʻahu, engaging thousands of volunteers. Together, we’ve removed abandoned cars, cleared brush, hauled boulders, disposed of dead animals, and even built sidewalks in areas prone to illegal dumping. Lastly, I launched a homeless outreach program called Restore, Reconnect, Revive in 2021. Seeing the homelessness along local beaches inspired me to coordinate with other impactful nonprofits, aiming to increase collaboration. We have restored beach areas to the public, reconnected homeless individuals with vital resources, and revamped our outreach approach by training volunteers to provide support with dignity.

Stacy Sericati

Idaho

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Stacy grew up in Wisconsin, the oldest of four kids on a dairy farm. She went to college at University of Wisconsin – Milwaukee, where she received her bachelor’s degree in Nursing. Married since 2003, she has two very active teen boys. She worked in labor and delivery for 13 years before serving as a school nurse for a decade. She later returned to school to become a Board Certified Nurse Coach. Now, as the owner of Stacy Sericati Coaching, LLC; she coaches women through their perimenopause symptoms. Additionally, she serves as an ambassador for the Women’s and Children’s Alliance, which assists women in escaping domestic abuse. She also helped establish a non- profit called Youth Mental Wellness Alliance, following multiple teen suicides in her community. She is actively involved in changing the policy and procedures for suicide prevention within the Boise School District.
My parenting philosophy revolves around love, respect, and guidance. I believe every child is unique and deserves unconditional love and respect. I aim to create a nurturing environment where my children feel safe, valued, and understood. This involves active listening, empathy and allowing my children to express their thoughts and feelings freely. Respect is by far the cornerstone of my approach. I emphasize the importance of mutual respect within the family. I respect them, and I expect them to respect me. Like any family, we have disagreements, but it’s important that we respect each other’s thoughts and opinions to show that we can have good communication and conflict resolution. Guidance is another aspect of my parenting philosophy. I believe in setting clear boundaries and expectations while providing the necessary support and encouragement for my children to thrive. Words of affirmation and support can significantly boost my children’s self-esteem and motivation. I discovered this while my boys were in grade school. It’s important to me to make my kids and other kids feel special and valued while reinforcing their worth and potential. In addition to these core principles, I prioritize fostering a love for learning and curiosity in my children. I encourage their interests and passions, providing opportunities for exploration and growth. From playing the trombone, participating in lacrosse, and developing a love for stories and history. Ultimately, my parenting philosophy is about creating a loving, respectful and supportive environment where my children can grow into confident, compassionate, and capable individuals.
1. Being part of suicide prevention in the school district has profoundly impacted both my family and the community. On a personal level, it has heightened our awareness of mental health issues. In the community, my involvement has helped to destigmatize mental health issues and promote a culture of empathy and understanding. By participating in workshops and awareness campaigns, I have contributed to educating others about the signs of mental distress and the importance of seeking help. I helped bring a program called Hope Squad to the Boise School District. Hope Squad is an evidence-based, peer-to-peer suicide prevention program built around the power of connection. 2. Being a perimenopausal coach has brought significant positive impacts to both the community and my family. In the community, I have helped to break down the stigma and silence surrounding menopause and perimenopause. By offering one-on- one coaching sessions, I have created safe spaces for individuals to share their experiences, ask questions, and seek advice. This has empowered many to take control of their health, leading to improved quality of life. Additionally, I have encouraged local healthcare providers to offer my services and support for those going through this transition. Being educated in this field has allowed me to provide informed support and guidance to my sisters, cousins, aunts, friends, and clients who are experiencing these changes. 3. I am an ambassador for the Women’s and Children’s Alliance. Their mission statement is – safety, healing and freedom from domestic abuse and sexual assault. This organization holds a special place in my heart. When my boys were young, they would have birthday parties and ask for donations to the WCA in lieu of gifts. At Christmas time my family and I would buy gifts for the kids at the shelter. I also spoke on their behalf at another non-profit I am part of called, 100 Women for Good, where the organization ended up donating over $13,000 to the WCA. I find deep satisfaction in helping others and am continually searching for ways to contribute.

Rebecca Erlemeier

Iowa

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Rebecca Erlemeier grew up in northeast Nebraska. Faith, music, and education were important parts of her childhood. Sensing a call to ministry, Rebecca attended Bible college and missions school after high school. She married her husband Jeffrey, a pastor, in 1998, and the two have served in ministry together for twenty-five years. Jeff and Rebecca have five children, Gloryana (25), Michael (21), Jason (19), Joshua (15) and Isaac (9). Isaac has Down Syndrome and is on the autism spectrum. Rebecca serves as assistant pastor and worship director at Faith Family Church in Harlan. She helps to oversee several departments and outreaches of the church, as well as mentor women and children. Rebecca has volunteered in her community at a pregnancy resource center, the elementary school, and by opening her home to support children, teens, and individuals in need. She is passionate about helping people discover their value, purpose, and gifts.
There are some aspects of my parenting philosophy that have remained unchanged over twenty-five years of parenting, and others that have evolved. Teaching honesty, kindness, generosity, and overall character are core values that are constant. Hard work, discipline, and being life-long learners are also traits that are very important to me. In addition, I want my children to know that they are deeply loved and that we will support them: both, in finding their talents and, as they spread their wings to soar in those abilities.  However, I readily admit that I have become more open-minded and less rigid as a parent than I was in my younger years. Although core values never change, sometimes our children (especially as they get older) make choices that are different than the choices we would have made for them. Rather than try to control those things, I have learned to celebrate their uniqueness and be a counselor and listening ear as they live and learn.  Having a child with special needs has also taught me in a deep, profound way that a person’s value is not found in what they do, but in who they are. Our Issac progresses at a slower pace and has more struggles than the average kid. Our whole family has learned to celebrate the little things and realize that taking a slower pace is okay. In this fast-paced world, those have been beneficial lessons to apply both in parenting and in my relationships with others as well.
I enjoy serving my family, church, and community in my free time. I believe that a great sense of purpose and fulfillment comes in giving of our time and energy to help others rise. Three areas I have been honored to be involved in are mentoring teens and young women, helping children read at the public elementary school, and supporting women at a pregnancy resource center. Over the years, I have been privileged to mentor teens and young women in our church and community through Faith Family Church’s Elevate youth program and young adults’ ministry. Some of the ways I have helped mentor are on a bigger scale through sharing large group talks to teens on Wednesday nights regarding topics such as finding one’s purpose and choosing to live a life of character, integrity, and service. I have also been able to mentor one-on-one at counseling appointments, coffee dates, and teaching music lessons, as well as in small group settings in my home, where we have a meal and discussion. It has been a great blessing to build relationships and watch these students become successful adults. My own children have been part of many of these activities, and I believe it has helped me to understand them better as well. I have also volunteered time over the past few years helping children with reading at our local public elementary school. As an avid reader myself, literacy is something that is very near and dear to my heart. I taught all of my own children to read, and it is a great joy for me to help other children too. Serving in this capacity has also enabled me to see teachers in action in their classrooms. My respect for them has grown immensely! Finally, several years ago, I volunteered my time at a pregnancy resource center, helping women who had encountered unplanned pregnancies. My compassion for women caught up in these circumstances was ignited, and I continue to organize annual drives in our church and community to assist mothers who need help with diapers, wipes, other baby essentials, and financial support.

Monica Charette

Maine

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Monica Charette, proud native of Aroostook County, resides in Oakland, Maine, where she and her husband raised their two children, Cassidy and Colby. A journalist, photographer, and published author, Monica has had a 35-year professional career in communications. But it is her role as mother that comes first. Ten years ago, that responsibility took on new meaning when her 17- year-old daughter died suddenly in a tragic hayride accident. Monica turned her personal tragedy into action by creating the ShineOnCass Foundation to carry on Cassidy’s legacy of kindness and service. As Executive Director, Monica has raised over $750,000 to champion youth mentoring, animal welfare, youth literacy, scholarships for athletics, music, and art, free libraries, community service scholarships, and orchestrating her community’s annual Blue Christmas Ceremony for hundreds of grieving people. She also co-hosts a mother-son podcast for bereaved families, giving others opportunity to share their grief and say their children’s names.
At the core of my personal parenting philosophy is not teaching, but rather leading by example how to be a respectful, loyal, kind, and loving human being. Role-modeling kindness and service to others is perhaps the most impactful thing we can do as parents. We have a responsibility to empower youth to be good stewards, recognize the world as larger than themselves, and then show them meaningful opportunities to take care of others in need and how to give back in their communities. Parenting has taken on new meaning since my 17-year-old daughter Cassidy died 10 years ago. In her short but meaningful life, Cass was a devoted community volunteer, youth mentor, and that student and athlete who looked out for her peers. Society presumes that because she died, I am no longer parenting her. I will never relinquish my role as her mother. Nor should I. Like other mother-and-child relationships, ours is evolving, changing and growing. Parenting looks like perseverance and resiliency; to be there for my living son, and to express my love for my daughter, by continuing her passions and extending her light into the world. Parenting has also evolved into taking on the role of mentoring dozens of other young women who need a positive, female role model in their lives. I have also discovered there is purpose and peace in supporting fellow bereaved moms, celebrating their courage, and bearing witness to their grief. Parenting takes on many roles in life. I am embracing them all.
Before becoming a biological mother, I had the unique privilege of leading a project with Veterans for Peace that rescued and transported two injured children from the war in Bosnia to Maine for medical care. I was there when they arrived at the airport, stayed at their bedside, helped find housing, coordinated care, taught them English, became their trusted mentor, and now lifelong friend. This first, young adult experience as a “stand-in mother” taught me the critical role mentors play in every child’s life. Parenting is everyone’s responsibility. Thirty years later, I am honored to lead more than 25 life-changing initiatives created to serve others in memory of my daughter Cassidy. One of those is the establishment of a Big Brothers Big Sisters ShineOnCass youth mentoring program in her school. Cass was just days from meeting her first “Little Sister” when the accident occurred. Since then, three additional ShineOnCass mentoring programs were launched, matching regional high school mentors with elementary students, that gives hundreds of youth facing adversity the opportunity to reach their greatest potential. I even became a mentor myself to a young woman in need of a positive role model, proudly following in my daughter’s footsteps. Finally, leading the ShineOnCass Foundation has given me opportunity to shine a light on youth service. Some of the most impactful initiatives include monetary “pay it forward” awards at area high schools to recognize students who extend kindness and service. The Foundation also created “Shine A Light on Literacy” that supports local free libraries, including ShineOnCass lending libraries we established in youth community centers. This project puts books into the hands of hundreds of young readers, promoting childhood literacy and lifelong learning. More recently, I launched a podcast with my 25-year-old son to give parents and siblings of child loss a space to heal by sharing their stories. This labor of love has had a profound impact on the grief community, as well as on the people who support them. Cassidy’s life has changed the way I view my own existence, and the time I have left to serve.

Dr. Renee Allen

Maryland

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TV & Radio personality who is also known as The People’s Emcee in the DMV. She uses her platforms to connect likeminded people. Her philanthropic heart is dedicated to the betterment of humanity and human decency. She is featured in the second edition of Who’s Who in Black Washington, DC, as one of the “Women of Excellence. ” She was the inaugural host of the Women’s Business Report on WLLA TV7. She is the visionary author of “The J Word” , an anthology and Amazon Best Seller. She is the recipient of the 2022 Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award [President Biden] for her over 10,000 hours of volunteerism. She serves on several boards and member of women organizations. Dr. Allen is a proud and highly decorated retired VETERAN, who honorably served two Presidents on the Mayo-Clinic, Granada Invasion and Desert Shield/ Desert Storm. She’s a proud mother of Chase, who continues to inspire his mother with his perseverance every day.
The day I became a mother, I felt reborn and unbelievably grateful after waiting thirty-nine years to experience motherhood. I immediately felt like a true advocate for another human-being. My philosophy on motherhood is that Mothers are everything! Mothers are where love starts and never ends. There is no greater love than a mother’s love with her child. Mothers are resilient and have the most impact/influence on her child. I watched my mother pour unlimited, unconditional love & support to me and my sisters every day. She taught us how to treat others kindly and with respect as well as to walk in confidence and go after your dreams. This is exactly what I teach my son, I applaud and honor American Mothers Inc., for this platform. Joining the AMI Maryland Chapter literally inspired me to be a better Mom and not to miss the little things. Being a mom is the most important role of my life on earth. I thank GOD I have been able to be a mentor to my son as well. We read scriptures together, talk about life, play board games and I am soooo grateful that he wants to spend time with me (smile). It’s a true gif to be called mommy!
The first activity is one of my passions which is supporting our youth. I have several events in which I donate my time as an emcee and my favorite is GIRLS WITH PEARLS in Delaware. This year was my third year, and these girls perform for Delawares finest; to include the Lt Gov through their dance performances, introductions and evening-wear segment. They rehearse all year to showcase their hard work to a standing-room-only ballroom of sponsors, supporters and loved ones. It’s one of my favorite highlights in my life. Every child deserves a chance in life, and they all need organizations like this to thrive. The second would have to be my Mom’s 80th birthday celebration in the Dominican Republic because she was overjoyed with happiness because her children, grandchildren and several best friends were surrounding her for the first time. It was magical and a memory which will last forever. Thirdly, would have to be during the Covid 19 Pandemic, when my son and I worked on publishing his amazing poetry. We spent all summer working on it together and it was the first time that we had that much time together because I was now working from home and so I was able to do so more with him. Ironically, the pandemic brought us much closer, and we enjoyed that quality time immensely!
Shantel Dudley

Shantel Dudley

Minnesota

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Shantel is the mother to 18 children. She and her husband Kent have a blended family and have adopted 11 medically complex children from the US foster care system. Shantel is a motivational speaker, pastors wife and founder of Real Life Women’s Conferences. Shantel shares her story of neglect and abuse as a child to an over comer who helps other moms step into their roles as moms. She and her husbands band travel into maximum security prisons to share hope and the power of forgiveness to them men they serve while there.
Shantel’s parenting philosophy is that children need love, affirmation and gentleness. She often shares with young moms that children should never be yelled at, and that parenting is a hands on job. She helps young moms (and dads) learn different ways of parenting that is often more affective than what they are doing. Shantel also helps parents that are new to the medical complex World of parenting by walking them through what services may be available in their area and how to seek the help they are needing.
Shantel is a public speaker, she shares her story of abuse and how she forgave her abusers. She ministers to other women who have not yet transitioned from victim to victor. Shantel has mentored many young ladies that have Shantel’s parenting philosophy is that children need love, affirmation and gentleness. She often shares with young moms that children should never be yelled at, and that parenting is a hands on job. She helps young moms (and dads) learn different ways of parenting that is often more affective than what they are doing. Shantel also helps parents that are new to the medical complex World of parenting by walking them through what services may be available in their area and how to seek the help they are needing. aged out of the foster care system and have started their own families. She and her husband have accepted many of these young ladies as their own children and are active grandparents to their children who would otherwise not have parents/grandparents. Shantel has started a christian book club in her community for teens and ladies, they get together twice a month over coffee to discuss the books that they are reading. Shantel has started a ladies night out, once a month ladies invite friends and they all go out to a local restaurant to laugh and talk about things each woman is going through. As a pastors wife she noticed that women need time together to just be real and transparent with one another, to give and get support for the daily struggles women were going through. This has been exceptionally popular and growing in our small community.

Marcy Bursac

Missouri

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Marcy channels the perseverance and self-reliance she learned amid childhood turbulent home life dynamics into advocating for children. Volunteering at an orphanage led her to pick adoption as her Plan A. After meeting her two children over Mother’s Day weekend, she pivoted her career into technology to align her schedule with her new role as a mother. She works full-time for a global software company and volunteers as the executive director of The Forgotten Adoption Option, an organization she founded to help find permanent families for the 113,000 children available for adoption through the foster care system. Marcy is a 4x author and podcaster. She holds master’s degrees in philanthropy and business. She was honored with the Pilot Pen G2 Overachievers Grant on The Kelly Clarkson Show, chosen as an Angels in Adoption® honoree, and voted People’s Choice as United States of America’s Mrs. Ohio 2022.
My approach to motherhood is guided by these 3 C’s:  Candor is a gift worth sharing – Talking about our emotions, feelings, and experiences is healthy.  Taboo topics are only awkward if we make them awkward. I am up front with my children about how babies are made, what body changes to expect during puberty, and that roughly 20% of their lifetime is spent in childhood. I believe it is important to welcome my children to discover these answers together rather than to turn to friends or the internet. Celebrate failure – Embrace rejection.  We award a crown and on occasion hold a parade inside our house when a child or an adult does not win, isn’t chosen, or gets less than an A. I believe the win can be winning but it can also be what we take away and how we challenge ourselves. Champion your shoes – Teach others about your unique journey and experiences. I teach my children to live with empathy and to first try to see that people at school, church, and in the community are not trying to exclude anyone. They just might not be aware of other people’s circumstances like not having a cell phone or identifying as neurodivergent. I teach my children to look for ways to teach their peers and adults in their lives about their story, passion, and interests.
My community efforts are focused on two main areas: MENTORING I am dedicated to sharing my expertise with others. I speak annually to high school students at the Center for Advanced Professional Studies (CAPS) program interested in business and technology careers. I guide individuals seeking to pivot into tech and volunteer as a mock interviewer with LaunchCode, the job skills program that helped me shift careers. Every year, I teach Financial Peace University, helping parents, engaged couples, women, and young adults learn to live debt-free. During my lunch hour and evenings, I coach adults who are interested in adopting a child or sibling group through the foster care system. FOSTER CARE ADOPTION ADVOCACY Helping adopted children feel seen significantly boosts their self-esteem and social integration. My vision is to foster a nation that celebrates families created through adoption and helps every waiting child find a permanent, loving family. My advocacy efforts include: Self-publishing four books, including an adoption how-to guide and a children’s book celebrating adoption. Hosting a podcast. Speaking on national and local media outlets to raise awareness. Partnering with a Hollywood star during National Foster Care Month. Appearing on a billboard to advertise resources. Using my lunch hour to present to groups nationwide. Investing my own money in projects like illustrations for my children’s book. Helping a friend establish adoption benefits for over 800 employees. Working with a national jewelry company to create a custom piece to raise awareness of the adoption symbol. Using paid time off to meet with Members of Congress in Washington DC. Collaborating with my graduate school on a commercial, magazine article, and blog post. Partnering with a national organization to create a pilot program funding home renovations for families adopting through foster care. * Making my children’s book and its coloring sheets available for free. Collaborating with 2 Girl Scouts to create and expand a nationwide Foster Care Adoption

Emily Christiansen

Montana

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Emily Christiansen is a woman who is invigorated by loving other people. Emily pursued her Bachelor’s in Education in Nursing, where she was awarded the “Caring Award” by the faculty. She is compassionate and tender to those she meets and loves to create space to develop relationships with people from all walks of life. Emily worked as a labor and delivery nurse for years, then ultimately decided to raise her kids and stay home with them. More recently she has endeavored to homeschool her children. She and her husband decided to grow their family through birth but also through foster care and adoption. Emily is involved deeply at her church, she advocates locally for foster care, and invests well into the lives of people around her. She has been trauma trained through her licensing agency and loves helping people to reach their fullest potential.
Parenting five young children has allowed Emily many opportunities for growth. Her parenting philosophy has always been to work towards raising functional and compassionate adults. Through trauma informed care, Emily has constantly been reassessing how and why children react and respond the way they do. As a mother she regularly sees that every child is a unique gift and each have their own strengths and areas of growth to work upon. Emily believes that every child is valuable and worthy of respect, and capable of changing the world. Children naturally want to be celebrated and loved, so Emily often utilizes these motivators to encourage her children to see the hurting and help everyone feel valued around them. Emily believes that every human has complexities and as a mother she is striving to train her children to have eyes to see the hurting and the vulnerable. In choosing to enter foster care when her oldest two were 4 and 2 years old, she made it a core value to welcome the hurting into their lives. Through regular feedback and deep conversations, Emily facilitates caring opportunities to love others well, starting first with her own family and then extending it to their local community. Emily’s parenting philosophy at its core, is one of believing children are capable of way more than the world naturally presumes them to be. Kids have beautiful talents and voices that are ready to be unleashed. She wants to be their biggest champion.
The State of Montana has thousands of vulnerable children looking for temporary or permanent homes. Being a foster mom has been one of the most profound and impactful opportunities of my life. We have hosted a myriad of children in our home, ultimately adopting two girls through two different cases. The privilege of being my girls’ forever mom when Plan A for their lives did not pan out is one of the most humbling privileges of my life. This has been an absolutely devastating and beautiful opportunity. Seeing the broken and hurting members of our communities, while still giving dignity to every person is an invaluable experience. All people deserve respect and encouragement. We have grown in wisdom and grace through this experience beyond what we could ever have imagined.  Choosing to be able to be a supportive member of the foster community through a local advocacy nonprofit, ChildBridge, has been an additionally beautiful thing. Serving as an occasional speaker or group participant has proven to be a very life giving opportunity. Receiving knowledge and sharing wisdom symbiotically has enriched my own personal life. Through creating healthy relationships with other active or interested foster parents, life change has happened. We know we can only take in a few of the vulnerable, however the more we can excite and engage others, the greater the ripple effect can be.  Another area I love participating in is our local church. My husband is a pastor and I deeply love connecting with people individually or in groups to facilitate personal growth. I have known seasons of loneliness in the past and now one of my greatest joys is to help people to get plugged in and connected at our church. Isolation is too great of a temptation in today’s world and I firmly believe we need people who will walk with us through all of life’s journeys. When my Dad was dying, our church was there to support us. Now through the understanding of birth and death and the chapters in between, I want to embrace people in whatever season they are walking.

Carole Kinlow

Nebraska

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Carole founded Carole’s House of Hope (CHH), a traditional living home that serves women and children that have aged out of foster care and are experiencing homelessness. She with her husband David opened CHH in 2014. Carole dreamed, planned, and sustains a 6-story building that houses and serves up to 60 women and children annually. Carole and her husband have six children 20 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren.
As a mother realizing that just as we change so do our children which makes it important to focus on age appropriate teaching, preaching forgiving and most of all loving unconditionally!
Over the last 30 years I have served in the human service field. I have worked with crisis pregnancy service, domestic violence victims, kids experiencing bullying, and housing for low income people. All of those experiences led me to CHH. My family has been witnessed to this work and each of them serve the public and unserved individuals.

Jamie Nadeau

New Hampshire

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Jamie Nadeau is a devoted and passionate single mother of four, living in New Hampshire. From a young age, she aspired to be a mother, and today, she takes pride in raising her children to be involved and positive contributors to their community. Jamie’s strong Catholic faith and close-knit family, including her supportive parents and sister, play an essential role in her parenting. Her professional background is equally impressive. With over 20 years of experience in nonprofit leadership, Jamie currently serves as the Executive Director of ACROSS NH, where she advocates for the Out-of- School Time community. Her dedication extends to volunteering with the New Hampshire Afterschool Network, where she leads various committees. Jamie’s unwavering commitment to nurturing her children’s academic and personal achievements, alongside her significant contributions to the OST field, exemplifies her dedication to building a brighter future for youth in her community.
My parenting philosophy centers on raising children who are confident, compassionate, and actively engaged in their community. As a single mother of four, I recognize the importance of modeling strong values, prioritizing our Catholic faith, and ensuring that our family operates as a cohesive, supportive unit. Faith forms the foundation of our daily life, guiding our decisions and strengthening our sense of purpose. Family connections are essential, and we are blessed to have the daily involvement of my parents and my sister’s family. They offer love, encouragement, and wisdom, helping to create a nurturing environment where my children feel safe and supported. Advocating for my children is fundamental. I guide and empower them to advocate for themselves, make thoughtful decisions, and pursue their ambitions. For example, my oldest daughter has excelled academically and is dual majoring in finance and marketing, while my second child leads in her school and community, securing scholarships for her outstanding service and academic excellence. My younger sons thrive as honor roll students and find joy in soccer and occasional service projects that help them build character and teamwork. Instilling a sense of responsibility and service is key. My children are raised to be contributors, whether through academic pursuits, athletics, or community service. We find joy in contributing to our community, discovering purpose through giving back and forming meaningful connections with others. By emphasizing self-respect, empathy, and active community involvement, I aim to nurture well- rounded individuals who understand the value of uplifting those around them and lead with integrity.
Motherhood has deeply intertwined with my community involvement, which has profoundly shaped my family and our shared experiences. My most meaningful involvement has been with P .E.O. International. As a founding member of Chapter AT in Newburyport, MA, I helped charter and grow this organization, which empowers women through education. Working alongside incredible Christian women to support scholarships and educational grants was inspiring. Even after moving back to my hometown in New Hampshire, I remained committed to P .E.O. ‘s mission and am eager to reconnect with a new chapter, especially as my second oldest applies for the P .E.O. STAR scholarship this year. Equally impactful is my role with the New Hampshire Afterschool Network (NHAN). Volunteering as the Executive Committee Chair and Steering Committee Chair has allowed me to advocate for and shape out-of-school time programming across the state. In this role, I lead strategic initiatives, oversee fundraising efforts, and collaborate with stakeholders to improve youth experiences. These efforts directly influence my professional work and provide my children with opportunities to engage and give back. Incorporating community service into our family life has been a meaningful journey. Each Christmas, we select a special community service activity to do together, such as assembling care packages for a teen homeless shelter, donating supply-filled baskets to a pregnancy care center, sponsoring individuals through our church’s giving tree, or contributing food items to our church’s pantry to support families in need. These shared experiences emphasize the spirit of giving and bring us closer. My children have especially appreciated participating in service projects through my work, their schools, and our church, experiencing the joy and fulfillment that comes from contributing positively. Balancing motherhood and community engagement has brought growth and purpose. Even occasional acts of service enrich our family life and instill values of compassion, resilience, and faith— principles I hope my children will carry forward into their futures. By prioritizing both family and community, I’ve fostered an environment where my children learn to appreciate the impact they can have on the world and embrace the responsibility of uplifting those around them.

Sibel Akdogmus

New Jersey

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Sibel was born on February 12, 1987, in a small city in eastern Turkey as one of seven siblings. She studied economics at university and went on to complete a master’s degree in the same field. After passing her exams, she became a certified public accountant and gained experience through internships and work in the accounting departments of international companies. She has traveled to several countries in Europe and attended professional accounting training in Dubai. During her pregnancy, she lived in North Carolina, where her son was born. After returning to Turkey, the pandemic began. Wanting to create a new future for her son, she applied for a job with a company in the United States. After completing a month of training, she and her young son moved to New Jersey when he was just two years old. Today, she works in the jewelry industry while raising her son, who has now been attending school in the U.S. for three years. Through her hard work and determination, she continues to build a life for her family and provide a bright future for her child.
“There are 3 types of people in the world. Men, Women and Mothers.” Some rules that were known before becoming a mother can be forgotten when you become a mother. There are mothers who run after their children with a spoon to feed them one more spoonful. There are mothers who make their babies go on a drive every night so that they can sleep. There are mothers who throw themselves on the floor of shopping malls and ignore their screaming children. There are mothers who get stressed because their crying children are disturbing them because their ears are blocked on the plane. There are mothers who meet with couples with children so that their children can make friends. Frankly, everyone has a right and a wrong when they become a mother. Nevertheless, each of us develops a Motherhood Philosophy over time. Some of what we read, some of what we learned from our mothers, Some of what we learned from our mothers but didn’t want to do, Our instincts, some of what we see from our surroundings, and some of our own personality shape this philosophy. I am not a perfect mother. I can never claim such a thing. However, my Motherhood Philosophy, which is my roadmap while raising my son, is as follows: not lying and keeping promises giving age-appropriate answers to my son’s questions always listening to my son not introducing my son to a screen (TV, iPad) too early my son and I are a family of two, making sure he knows that our family has some rules. paving the way for my son to be creative and dream getting to know my son’s friends not buying or doing everything my son wants.
I can summarize the first situation as follows; two years ago, an earthquake occurred in Turkey that caused the deaths of thousands of people. This earthquake was felt in 6 provinces and unfortunately thousands of people died. This situation affected me and millions of people like me badly. People from all over the world showed a wonderful example of cooperation. Everyone made financial donations to Turkey and many associations and civil society organizations sent items to those in need. I did something like this. I work in the jewelry industry. There are jewelers all along 47th Street in New York. I took a jar and walked the entire street for 3 hours a day and 3 days with the support of my boss. And in total, I collected $9000 with the participation of all the jewelers. My boss took this money and sent it to the earthquake zone with our manager in Turkish. This money reached many people who were affected by the earthquake. The whole company congratulated me. Everyone said I did a great job. Secondly, there was a mother working in the cleaning department at the workplace where I worked for a very low wage. Her only dream was to save up the tuition fee for her daughter to go to a private school so that she could prepare for university. When I learned this, I supported her. I enrolled her daughter in a private school. And her daughter got into university. Her mother called me crying. She thanked me. Mothers have very heavy burdens. I helped in my own way. I hope all mothers support each other. This way, we can be lighter. Finally, when I got divorced, my whole life was turned upside down with my baby who was still breastfeeding. Both a postpartum mother, a single woman, and a girl who had returned to her family home with her unemployed baby… this situation shook me very much. I felt like I was at the bottom of a dark well. There was never any light. Then the smell of my baby and her beautiful eyes looking at me made me get back up stronger than I had fallen. I left my son behind and came to a country where I don’t even know the language. And for three years, I have been working and raising a child here without anyone’s support. Everyone respects this and asks me how I do it with astonishment. I think I have given courage to many people in this regard. Although it seems very difficult for a woman to be alone with a baby, it is not impossible to achieve.

Christina Fanitzi

New York

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Christina is a native New Yorker and Army Officer. She led soldiers in Asia, Europe, and the US, including tours in Iraq and Afghanistan. Christina recently served as a Battalion Commander where she led intelligence analysis in the Pacific and currently serves as a West Point Regimental Tactical Officer where she leads +1100 cadets. She served as a White House Fellow in the National Economic Council, Special Assistant to the Chief of Staff Army, and West Point instructor, where she received recognition as a finalist for the Dean’s Award for Teaching Excellence. She is an alumnus of GWU (BBA), The Tuck School of Business (MBA), Council of Foreign Relations Term Membership, and MIT Seminar XXI National Security and US Army War College Fellowship programs. Her service merited the Bronze Star, the two highest national Alpha Delta Pi awards for overall and philanthropic excellence, the Julia Stell Award for significant leadership and community contributions, and Dux Femina Facti Award for outstanding female leadership. She is proud wife to an active duty Marine and mom to a Spina Bifida Warrior.
Our parenting style centers around faith and independence. My son, Christian, has both Spina Bifida and Hydrocephalus and his condition impacts development, continence, and mobility. Doctors and in utero medical testing suggested Christian would not walk, he would suffer incontinence, and he would have significant mental delays. We are a faith-based family and turned to prayer and my personal fitness, while pregnant, as ways to counter his prognosis. Children, teens, and adults, with Spina Bifida, often suffer from anxiety and depression, and have challenges with adult executive skills. Research, during my pregnancy, suggested cultivating early independence resulted in better outcomes in all three areas. Parents of children with disabilities are also more likely to intervene and assist their children which results in negative outcomes in all three areas. It became my mission to do everything to cultivate independence for my son – from asking him which onesie he wanted to wear as an infant, even when he could not exactly respond, to allowing him to try, and fail in, walking to enrolling him in swim classes as early as six months old. My son falls a lot, due to his condition and his right leg is weak; but, we never coddle him. We simply encourage him that he’s okay and to try again, and he does, every time. My son is fearless, he absolutely knows his mind, (he is fearless in water) and while we can tell he is largely frustrated in the limitations of his body, he does not allow them to slow him down. He makes me infinitely proud.
My military service and work with the Spina Bifida Association of New York (SBANYS) impacted my life and enabled me to make a positive impact in my family and community. I am the proud daughter of blue-collar workers, from a small farming community, where most rarely travel outside the state or country. The Army provided me opportunities I never dreamed possible. I traveled to over 34 countries, led hundreds of Soldiers, and earned higher degrees. I am the first in my family to earn an Ivy League education and the first in my town to serve in the White House. I did not earn these opportunities alone; it remains my mission to give back to those who made me. I spend countless hours volunteering in schools and programs to mentor young children and share my story of service in hopes, “if they can see me, they can be me” . My Soldiers come from diverse backgrounds and I mentored several to attain college degrees, to achieve national recognition, and also to better serve their communities. I committed my life to service and now my personal volunteer work largely supports Spina Bifida. My life changed when I learned my son would be born with Spina Bifida. His infancy was laden with hospital visits and surgeries; it was devastating. Partnering with SBANYS allowed me to turn adversity into action and advocate for the 4000 New Yorkers who live with Spina Bifida. My work brought together eight families in the Hudson Valley, who were not previously connected to each other or SBANYS, to build a Regional Advisory Council and to create the Inaugural Mid-Hudson Walk-n-Roll, the first local presence of the Spina Bifida Association’s national fundraiser. I am proud to play a significant role in a ~$75K fundraising effort and to join the SBANYS board to help continue to build a better and brighter future for those with Spina Bifida.

Lindsey Burkhardt

North Dakota

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Lindsey has been the Director of the North Dakota Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Task Force since January 2022. In this role, she has been instrumental in advancing initiatives to ensure the safety and well-being of children across North Dakota. Lindsey is deeply committed to the belief that every child deserves a happy, healthy, and carefree childhood, free from the threat of sexual abuse. Lindsey holds a Bachelor’s degree from Minnesota State University Moorhead. In addition to her professional achievements, Lindsey is a devoted mother of four. She is also an active volunteer with a non-profit organization dedicated to enhancing the self-esteem of adolescent girls and serves as an ordained minister. Lindsey’s positive attitude and relentless energy are evident in her advocacy efforts, making a significant impact on the lives of many. In recognition of her contributions across North Dakota, Lindsey was honored with the Woman of the Year Award in the category of Youth Advocacy by the Fargo-Moorhead YWCA in April 2024.
My parenting philosophy revolves around three guiding pillars. Those are 1) ensuring safety, 2) fostering nurturing relationships, and 3) providing emotional security for my four daughters. Safety means not only creating environments where my children can thrive but also always being their safe place. Nurturing my relationships with four daughters means that I provide each of them unconditional love- loving, respecting and accepting them for who they are not what they do or accomplish. I meet my daughters with empathy and understanding through their feelings, I validate their emotions and help them navigate through the trials and tribulations of life they have and will for certain face. Lastly, emotional security is a pillar to my parenting philosophy. I am a consistent support and presence in their life. They know I am always there for them- physically and emotionally. May my daughters always know and feel my love for them, ‘all the days’ .
I volunteer as a mentor with BIO Girls. It is an organization that is committed to raising the self- esteem of adolescent girls. I enjoy being a mentor & support for the girls in the program. I’ve been a volunteer for the last few years now and plan to continue! I believe it’s a privilege to be a protective factor in the lives of those girls. Another way I feel like I’ve been involved and impacted my family & community is by serving as an advocate for youth. My entire professional career has been dedicated to serving others and working with at-risk children and families. Although the work hasn’t always been easy nor in my comfort zone, it’s always been worth it. I’m an ordained minister. I’ve had the honor of marrying three couples since 2021. This is a way to share in joy with not only my sister on the biggest day of her life, but also friends who I love and care for very much. I know those days have impacted me as much as they impacted the couples I’ve officiated for.

Spring Gray

Oklahoma

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Spring Gray is the reigning Mrs. Oklahoma America, adoptee, advocate, volunteer and daughter of the most high. She and her husband Aaron are entrepreneurs and have been married for 15yrs. They have one son Titus who is 10. She is an alumni of Oral Roberts University and currently resides in Bixby Oklahoma. Above all, Spring treasures the power of family. She boldly shares her testimony of being adopted at birth to advocate for adoptee rights across the globe. She is a Big with Big Brother Big Sister of Oklahoma, and currently leads an Adoptees Connect Group in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Spring is also a volunteer at St. Francis Health Systems and on the Bixby Optimist board. She was recently presented with the Presidential Volunteer Lifetime Achievement Award. When she not volunteering she loves traveling with her family, watching old movies and being a cat mom and bearded dragon mom.
Parenting has never been easy, and as any parent will admit, it can be an exhausting job. At the same time, it gives the greatest rewards in life. Good parenting is often thought that parents must be involved in the minutiae of their kids’ lives to be successful. However, I believe the main goal of parenting is to produce worthy citizens who contribute to their fellow human beings, and it is up to us as parents to decide what that looks like. Before ever having children my husband and I would have lengthy conversations about how we would raise our child. A few things we immediately agreed upon as devout Christians was to raise our child in the church. We also discussed how we would discipline our child, whether they would be in public school or private school as well as a plethora of other topics. We wanted to be certain we were on the same page before bringing a child into this world. As someone who has a PhD in psychology, our parenting style aligns mostly with authoritative. Our son knows there are rules and consequences but also knows there are rewards for going above and beyond what is expected. The rules are explained and communicated with him so there aren’t any misunderstandings later. We allow him to make most of his choices and have faith we have raised and taught him right. So far, knock on wood, we have seen that he is empowered by being able to not only make his own decisions but make the right ones.
As someone who volunteers 300 hours a month, this is where my heart swells. As a big with Big Brother Big Sister, I have been able to positively impact not only my little but also her family. Big Brother Big Sister has made a significant impact on our community by providing mentorship and support to at-risk youth. Through one-on-one relationships, mentors help children develop confidence, improve academic performance, and build positive social skills. The program has contributed to reducing risky behaviors among participants, such as substance abuse and school dropout rates. My little has grown socially by leaps and bounds in the last 3 years mostly due to being involved with BBBS. By offering guidance and stability, BBBS empowers young people to envision and work toward a brighter future, ultimately creating a cycle of positive change. As a volunteer for over 10 years at St. Francis Hospital I have worn many hats. I have served on the auxiliary board, am currently a shift captain as well as co-chair the MASH program. Volunteering at the hospital significantly benefits the community by enhancing patient care and easing the workload on healthcare staff. I can provide crucial emotional support to patients and their families, offering a listening ear, companionship, and comfort during challenging times. As a volunteer, we also create a sense of community by showing compassion and commitment to helping others, inspiring a culture of giving back. Being an adoptee gave me a built-in need to advocate for others and bring awareness to the different aspects of adoption such as children awaiting a stable, loving home and encouraging more people to consider adoption. In 2017 I became a facilitator for Adoptees Connect, a peer-led adoptees group. I was inspired to do this after searching for a support group only to find the closest one being in Texas. I have worked to dispel misconceptions about the adoption process, making it more accessible and less daunting for potential parents. By sharing stories, providing resources, and supporting adoptive families, I’ve been part of a community that understands and embraces adoption.

Yarelis Colorado-Ruiz

Puerto Rico

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Born on July 2, 1984, in San Juan, Puerto Rico, Yarelis Colorado-Ruiz is a married mother of four, a Public Health Specialist, Health Educator, Personal Finance Professor for unemployed workers, Guitar Instructor, and community leader. At 15, she conducted music workshops and tutored in Mathematics, Spanish, and English, earning recognition in 1999 from former U.S. President Bill Clinton for her efforts in promoting English language learning through volunteer work. She earned a Bachelor’s in Business Administration from NUC University in2017, and completed a Master’s in Public Health at the San Juan BautistaSchool of Medicine in 2022, graduating Summa Cum Laude with the Humanism Award. She is currently pursuing a Doctorate in Public Health with a concentration in Health Systems and Management at the Medical Science Campus of the University of PR. In 2022, she founded Casa Salud Inc., promoting health and disease prevention in vulnerable communities.
My parenting philosophy is grounded in the conviction that mothers should not only guide their children but also provide them with the tools needed to develop their independence and become positive forces in the community. I firmly believe that each child should be prepared to face the world with autonomy, strength, and confidence. To achieve this, I nurture in them the values of humility, respect, altruism, love for God, and perseverance fundamental principles that they can grow within themselves, and which will guide them through all stages of life. I teach my children to listen assertively and to write their stories, as these activities help them to better understand the world around them, fostering empathy and a deep connection with others. Social justice is another pillar of my parenting approach. I want them to understand the importance of equity and the commitment to work toward a more just world for all. Above all, I believe in resilience, not only as a physical capacity but as an emotional virtue. I teach them that, in the face of adversity, it is essential to rise up and continue moving forward, learning from each experience to become stronger and more compassionate, serving as an example for others. As a mother, my focus is on raising independent, empathetic, spiritual, and resilient children, committed to their values and to the society in which they live.
From a young age, I dedicated part of my life to offering music workshops for vulnerable communities in Aguas Buenas. This commitment has impacted not only those I’ve taught but also my four children. Music has been a constant presence in their lives since the womb, and two of them now play music in their free time. This musical influence has broken down communication barriers and fostered acceptance of cultural diversity. It has also supported my son with autism in his cognitive development and helped instill community values. These experiences have created a family legacy of unity, resilience, and service, a legacy we share as an example and resource for our community. As the founder of Casa Salud Inc., I work with my family to drive equity in health and social justice, positively impacting our community. One of our most meaningful activities is “Cuidando Corazones” (“Caring for Hearts”), held annually during Mother’s Day month. In this initiative, our values of altruism, social justice, and kindness are put into practice through partnerships with other organizations and the community. We serve populations such as older adults, bedridden individuals, those with disabilities, and their caregivers by providing health education, food supplies, and spiritual support. This initiative has expanded to other towns, replicating our model for community well being Additionally, I focus on developing community leaders and strengthening nonprofit organizations, offering education and tools that enable them to lead and serve with wisdom and humility. This ensures the well-being of communities during family and community emergencies. This effort is supported by Hon. Karina Nieves Serrano, Mayor of Aguas Buenas, my family, and the communities we serve. The inspiration and honor of motherhood have been key to the success of these projects. Finally, I offer my talents as a guitarist in the Musical Ministry at Tres Santos Reyes Parish in Aguas Buenas, carrying forward a mission-driven spirit. Each endeavor reinforces my dedication to community, blending motherhood, music, and service to foster positive change in the lives of those around me.

Lauren DeFilippo

South Carolina

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Lauren DeFilippo is a devoted single mother and passionate advocate for family and community, with an unwavering commitment to creating a nurturing and supportive environment. Balancing a career as a self employed technology consultant, she dedicates herself wholeheartedly to her son, striving to be a role model and source of strength. Known for her warmth, resilience, and selflessness, Lauren goes above and beyond to ensure her family thrives. In her free time, she enjoys puzzling and spending time with her son and invests in her own personal growth. Her drive to foster a loving, uplifting home makes her a strong candidate for Mother of the Year.
My parenting philosophy is rooted in love, respect, and intentionality. I believe that each child is unique and deserves a supportive environment that celebrates their individuality while guiding them to become confident, compassionate individuals. My approach centers around open communication, encouraging my son to express himself freely, ask questions and feel valued. Be creating a home filled with trust and understanding, I hope to ensure that he always feels safe and supported. I strive to lead by example, demonstrating kindness, responsibility, and resilience through my own actions. I believe that modeling these qualities teaches children more effectively than words alone, showing him how to approach life’s challenges and relationships with integrity. At the same time, I believe in setting healthy boundaries, helping my son develop a sense of accountability while knowing he is a unconditionally loved. I also place a strong emphasis on fostering a sense of curiosity and lifelong learning. I encourage my son to explore his interests and broaden his perspective, whether it’s through family time or participating in community activities. I want him to feel both grounded in his values and open to new ideas. Above all, my parenting philosophy is about creating a warm, empowering environment where my son feels deeply loved and equipped to thrive in all areas of his life. With patience and a nurturing spirit, I am dedicated to helping him grow into his best self.
1. As a faith formation teacher, I am dedicated to guiding children in their spiritual journey, helping them build a strong foundation in their believes and values. By creating an open, supportive space, I encourage them to explore faith with curiosity, ask questions, and develop a personal connection with their spirituality. My role extends beyond teaching; I aim to inspire confidence and kindness, fostering qualities that positively impact their lives and relationships. through faith formation, I contribute to a compassionate, engaged community, helping to shape a generation grounded in empathy, respect, and a shared commitment to uplifting one another. 2. As class mom, I play an active role in building a supportive and inclusive classroom environment, bridging communication between teachers and parents, and organizing events that enhance the school experience for all. This role allows me to support my son’s growth directly while modeling the importance of involvement and community engagement. By fostering connections among families, I help create a sense of unity that positively impacts the children and encourages parents to stay involved. Being class mom also strengthens my family’s ties within the community, showing my child the value of service, cooperation, and dedication to the people around us. 3. I take pride in offering my friends and their children a safe, welcoming space in my home. I want everyone who enters to feel comfortable, accepted, and supported. Whether it’s hosting playdates, lending a listening ear, or providing a calm place to unwind, I strive to create an environment of warmth and trust. I’m intentional about making my home a haven where friends and their children know they can relax and be themselves. This open-door approach has fostered meaningful connections and allowed my family and friends to build a strong sense of community, grounded in kindness and genuine care.

Skyla Nicholas

South Dakota

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Skyla Nicholas was born in Miller South Dakota in 1959. She Graduated from Miller and then futhered her education at Black Hills State college. Skyla married Rocky Nicholas in her back yard in miller, South Dakota June 27th 1981. In 1984 Skyla became a mother to her first born child Patrecia. She knew as soon as Patrecia was born it was the best thing that happened to her since her mothers passing. Skyla’s mother passed away on September 16th 1982. Having Patrecia helped skyla feel the void of loosing her mother. Her second child Jessica was born in 1986. Then in 1987 Skyla had their 3rd daughter winter. Skyla wanted to remain at home with her children so she started her own Daycare 33 years ago. Skyla is not only a mother but a Grandmother to 15 Grandchildren. Skyla hobbies are hunting, fishing, darting, and watching her Grandchildren play sports.
We as parents have always loved our children unconditional. They don’t give you a book on how to be a parent, somethings we just learned over time. I do know for sure when we were raising our children we had to be Consistent on how we disciplined. And we didnt say anything we couldnt follow through with. Children love to be praised, so we encourage them with positive words. Also we had to watch what we did, children watch everythig you do and mimic it. We talked to our children and listen to what they had to say. We always ate at the table with the tv off and said our prayers before we ate. We took them to church and Sunday school. They thanked us later for doing so.
Skyla has been activity in her church for 38 years. Skyla has taught Sunday school (8 years) and she still teaches Wednesday school. (10 years). Skyla also runs the video equipment to put the church service on Facebook live. Skyla has been a volunteer for Girl Scouts for 35 years. At one time she was the Girl Scout Leader for all 3 of her daughters troops. Skyla took her Girl Scouts to Washington DC, New York, and Paris France. The Girls from skylas troops still stay in contact with her from calling and telling her they are getting married to when they are expecting a child. The Girls are like her own daughters. The girls told skyla they learned so much through Girl Scouts it helped them through college and now as adults. Skyla also had other Girl Scout Troops after her daughters graduated and left home. Skyla was the Service Unit Manger for 20 years. Skyla participates in Girl Scout activities like camp and other events. She also take care of the Girl Scout Cabin. Skyla is in charge of the Pierre Pink Ladies Darts. The Pink Ladies earn money through throwing darts and fundraisers and give money to breast cancer recipients.

Lindy Wynne

Tennessee

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Lindy Wynne has been a mother for two decades through the gift of adoption. Together with her husband of 24 years, Lindy adopted her oldest children through foster care (they are biological siblings now aged 25 and 22), and her youngest daughter at birth through a private adoption (now 9 years old). Two of Lindy’s children have special needs. Lindy holds a master’s degree in Pastoral Care and Counseling and has worked in professional ministry for sixteen years. She hosts Mamas in Spirit podcast (“a mini-retreat in a podcast”). She speaks and leads retreats nationally. Lindy is active in her community–she teaches Sunday School, leads a Girl Scout troop and sings in the choir at her church. On occasion, she cantors at church with her nine-year-old daughter.
Children need to know they are each a unique gift, “a word spoken only once” (Sister Peg Dolan, RSHM). There will never be another one of them and they are treasured. At the heart of my mothering is meeting my children exactly where they are at and loving them into who God has created them to be. I stay attentive to discern when to advocate for resources, place boundaries, lend an empathetic ear, tend to a hurting heart, etc. I am honest with my children about their choices and the realities of the world, while striving to be compassionate and forgiving when they fall. I focus on their gifts and strengths, while supporting and encouraging them in areas of growth. I do my best to help my children grow into healthy and faithful adults who contribute to society as independently as possible (this looks very different for each one of my children). I have come to recognize that mothering requires nothing less than the total gift of self. Mothers are called to love and not to count the cost for a lifetime. Just because two of my children are adults does not mean they don’t still need the love, care and attention of their parents. It just looks a little different. I have spent 20 years delighting in the small things with my children–building forts, going on bike rides, eating treats, having chats, reading books and even doing gymnastics. This has nourished and sustained me throughout parenting children with special needs.
I find that whenever | “give” | receive so much more. This is true of my volunteer work leading Girl Scouts, hosting children weekly for “Bible Study and Tea” at my home and founding and hosting Mamas in Spirit ministry and podcast. I get to delight in each child or woman I encounter and be blessed by the dynamic love of God. In a recent Mother’s Day card my husband referred to me as “a mother to all.” This reflects my hope that each person I meet in my community or volunteer work experiences the presence, nurture and love of a mother. From casual visits at the grocery story to organized events for Girls Scouts and Bible Study to interviews and engagements for my ministry, I pray others feel seen, known, and loved-that they are touched by the love of a mother. By interviewing over 250 women for my podcast Mamas in Spirit, both I and listeners have learned countless amounts of wisdom from other mothers (whether biological, adoptive or spiritual mothers). Sometimes mothering involves very difficult realities, like children with serious illness, addiction, special needs, etc. It is incredibly moving to hear feedback that, by the grace of God, these podcasts have helped women to know they are not alone, to receive support and to experience the healing touch of God. I hope that my community is more tightly knit by my volunteer work. I hope the girls in my Girl Scouts troop and Bible Study create lifelong relationships that are deeply rooted and supportive. By engaging them in different community events and service projects, I hope they each discover who God calls them to be and always give generously of themselves in service. I also hope their mothers are touched by their involvement with these organizations and ministries and sense how deeply loved and needed they are, too. Volunteer work and ministry are about creating genuine and supportive relationships deeply rooted in love and charity. I pray to do just this!

Tiffany Finley

Texas

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Tiffany Finley is a proud wife and mom, Birth Doula & Childbirth Educator, and Founder of My Predestined One, a faith-based nonprofit that provides support, resources, education, and encouragement to women and couples who have given birth to premature, fragile babies and women and couples who are struggling to conceive, while bringing global awareness to these issues. She founded the nonprofit in honor of her son, a former 25-week micro-preemie, whose life reminds her daily to be strong, brave, and to overcome. She is the author of A Fearless Journey to Motherhood: Fighting Fear with Faith During Infertility & Pregnancy where she uses the word of God to encourage women to rely on, and trust God during the tough journeys of premature birth and infertility. She received her Bachelor of Science in Psychology and her Master of Social Work at The University of Southern Mississippi. Tiffany is an infertility and preemie parent advocate. Through her non-profit, maternal health work, and personal experiences with infertility, miscarriage and premature birth, she can walk alongside and help other women navigate challenges, and empower them to not only educate themselves, but also advocate for themselves.
My parenting philosophy is to lead by example with my actions, words, unconditional love, and faith. I’m always my children’s primary example. I don’t believe in telling them to do as I say and not as I do. Children are sponges, and they learn through observation and what they see. I strive to be a Christ-like, and positive example for my children in and outside of our home. This is important to me, as I want them to always honor Christ in their lives through their actions, words and choices. I encourage them to treat others as they expect to be treated with respect, kindness, love, and dignity. My children are a gift to me and are one of my greatest accomplishments. I believe that motherhood is a calling that God entrusts to mothers to glorify him. I try my best to be a good steward over their lives and to honor God with how I raise my children, with unconditional love, support, faith, and guidance. While I overwhelm them with love and affirm them daily, I also ensure that my children understand rules, boundaries and authority in our home and outside the home. I want them to not only follow the expectations of our home, but expectations set in their community, schools and other places they may gather. Being a mom to my two boys fills me with so much pride, as they are my miracle babies. They both have a beautiful birth story in which only God gets the glory. I want my children to continue to grow and all areas of life. I challenge them to go above and beyond in everything that they do, and not to settle. I remind them to do everything as unto God, to be servant leaders first by being intentional in finding ways to serve their peers, our community, and to give back. My oldest being born preterm at just 25 weeks gestation, and our family love and look forward to giving back to the NICU nurses and staff that provided round-the-clock care during our 4-month NICU stay and fills us with so much joy. I will always and forever be their biggest cheerleader and always encourage them to walk in their purpose.
Servant leadership is important to me and is one of my family’s core values. I take pride in serving my community and giving my time toward a cause that will positively impact others. It’s a great feeling knowing that you are impacting and helping others. As a PTA (Parent Teacher Association member), I volunteer and commit myself to assist in whatever ways needed to assist my child’s school in achieving all educational and extracurricular goals. I believe in being involved in all aspects of my children’s education and school endeavors, as well as building positive relationships with my child’s teachers and administrators. I enjoy being a member of such a wonderful organization that’s really and truly the heartbeat of the school in our community and supports many families that live in our community as well. As a mom to a former 25-week micro preemie and a woman who has endured fertility struggles and pregnancy loss during my own motherhood journey, I give back to other women who too are facing infertility, premature birth and miscarriage through my nonprofit, My Predestined One. I have been blessed to lead monthly infertility and preemie parent support groups for women who feel along and need community. I have served our community NICU by giving back to the doctors, nurses, and staff by providing nutritious lunches and snacks. My Predestined One has collaborated with several Fertility Clinics in the Dallas Fort Worth metroplex providing opportunities to educate women during our annual Making You Aware program in honor of PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) and NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit) month during the month of September. Women can ask questions regarding their diagnosis and how to navigate seeking out a fertility specialist should the need arise. This organization also hosts annual and monthly faith-based programs that allow women to be a part of prayer, worship, and encouraging stories and testimonies of other women who have walked in their shoes who are now holding the babies they were also once believing God for. They can hear stories of other mothers affected by premature birth who know what it’s like to have to touch their baby through an isolette, instead of holding them following birth because they are too tiny and fragile. We also connect women to other pregnancy, childbirth and maternal health resources in our community to assist them in their motherhood journey. My family and I also fundraise for March of Dimes organization through our annual March for Babies Team, Caleb’s Avengers. After the preterm birth of my son, we began teaming up, assisting and helping March for Babies to raise prematurity awareness. We participated in our first walk in March 2014 and have continued to serve with this organization. I’ll never get tired of this work of supporting women who have been affected by premature birth, infertility, and pregnancy loss. I know without a shadow of a doubt that every hardship and painful moment that I have faced on my motherhood journey led me to this work that I so humbly do today. It’s my calling and purpose.

Janalyn Christiansen

Utah

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Janalyn Christensen is the lucky recipient of amazing acts of love and her quest is to smother everyone she can in the love she’s received. She and her loving husband Jeff have five sons and one favorite daughter and their kids call Jana “my best friend. ” Now a grandmother of six, you can find her leading them in song and dance in her happiest moments. To help children develop more than skill and grit, she founded Hands Together Theater Academy in 2021 which nurtures compassion and a humanitarian spirit in the rising generation. She also gives teens a tech-free chance to learn to work hard in her successful landscape delivery and installation company. Her efforts with the next generation are helping to raise hundreds of people who are as kind, loving, and passionate as herself. Jana hopes the title of her biography is “Always There for You. “
Parenting is a privilege. Our children owe us nothing. Every child has an inherent independent will. Respecting that will with pure love is the only way we can influence the terrible majesty of their unfettered choice. In our civic and even romantic relationships humans have a tendency to keep score, and are often afraid to be the one who does the most and loves the most. Motherhood is wildly unfair. Loving a dependent child helps free our soul from the shackles of selfishness that burden us with “keeping score” in our relationships and miserly distributing perceived “earned” love. Parents serve as invisible optometrists and fashion the first pair of glasses through which children see the world: scarcity or abundance, entitlement or gratitude, seeing suffering as being robbed of a pain-free life or a redemptive opportunity to grow. What a beautiful opportunity we have to help them view life in exciting wonder. As the oldest of 7 children and a blessed recipient of a long line of devoted and delighted mothers, I felt equipped and excited to “sacrifice” to care for this dependent little one, to bandage heal lift and bless, but I’ve been amazed to learn that the babies I’ve been privileged to hold have healed me. They taught me what true love looks like and I have been bathed in the glory of their pure love, trust and forgiveness. Motherhood is wildly unfair in our favor and it is the best privilege that has ever been given to me.
When my husband became disabled I had a burning desire to provide for my family but not leave them, so our family created a landscaping company where I could work alongside my 5 sons and darling daughter. We began to design, deliver and install landscape products. Now in our tenth year, we exclusively employ teens and young adults. We run multiple trucks, trailers, and crews. This gives them a therapeutic and wonderful chance to run wheelbarrows, learn to do very hard and messy work. We have delivered and installed at least 21 million pounds of product. I created Hands Together Theater Academy to give kids opportunities to put down their tech, connect, serve, grow, and learn to pursue their brilliant possibilities. This unique charity focused specifically on giving youth the chance to serve. Born of a deep desire to pass on some beautiful love that my family has been bathed in, we created this organization to give children and teens an opportunity to share their light and make a difference. Each week the theater students learn about a humanitarian’s story, then rehearse a musical theater presentation that is performed at special needs schools, for the elderly, or others who are not able to enjoy theater in its traditional setting. We have performed for places like Camp Hobe Cancer Camp, the Jean Masseiu School for the Deaf and Blind, and at the State Ceremonies of the Utah Special Olympic Games. When we perform for the friends and family, instead of charging for tickets the cast chooses a charity to dedicate their show to and we invite donations. With these funds we have sponsored students in Africa, given to refugees, donated to a local teen experiencing cancer, helped build houses and libraries in Mexico and helped children escape slavery. I am helping to raise hundreds and hundreds of humanitariTEENS. I love landscaping and working with my children. I love our theater projects. But my deepest joy is my precious crazy darling, fun, wild children, and when one of my grandchildren comes in the house and calls out “Mimi, are you at?”

Kathleen Lynch

Vermont

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Kathleen is the eldest of six children of devoted, faithful parents. ‘Faith,Family and Friends’ was the framework of her upbringing. She was educated in the public school system in Auburn, Massachusetts. She received her RN Diploma in Nursing through St Vincent Hospital School of Nursing, Worcester, Massachusetts in 1977. She has cared for Surgical patients for 47 years, maintaining her RN license while raising her family.
My mentors in motherhood were my mother Kathleen Connor and my grandmothers, Margaret Howrigan and Catherine Connor. They were selfless, devoted women who gracefully raised their large families while shouldering loss and sacrifices without complaint. Becoming a mother is a leap of faith: faith in oneself and in the relationship with our partner. We need faith as we nurture our children to become caring, compassionate individuals. We do this as a team. It is often only faith that guides us through some of life’s most challenging moments. My husband Tex and I have been blessed with seven strong, kind children, now ages 24-38. Each is a gift with their own unique talents and interests. Four are married, and our greatest blessing is our twin grandchildren. My husband is the youngest of eight, and I am the eldest of six. We took care to be involved with school, athletic and community activities that supported our children in their formative years. I believe that exposure to a multitude of opportunities has given them the tools they need to develop their unique talents as happy and productive citizens. Our son Patrick was born with Down syndrome and diagnosed with Autism at age 3. Patrick brings out the best in those around him. We have met so many kind, genuine families, medical specialists and educators because Patrick is a member of our family. He is an employee at our local supermarket, a parishioner at our church, St. Mark’s, and is well known in our community. Motherhood is an evolving role. Each pregnancy, each child teaches us something new. We need to be open to adapting in this remarkable, privileged role; always ready to listen, to be available and to pray for our children throughout their lives.
Because we lived near Lake Champlain, swim lessons were crucial for our children. For many summers, I collaborated with our local YMCA to host the Backyard Swim program in our neighborhood pool. The program accommodated dozens of neighborhood children as well as many Burlington families who would not otherwise have had access to a qualified swim program At age 40 I became a volunteer chaperone in a local Ski and Snowboard club . For 12 years I enjoyed the trails at Smuggler’s Notch while watching our children participate in winter sports. I cherish the memories of looking out at Vermont’s beauty while riding a chairlift with my children. In 2010 our family assisted with the first events hosted by our Champlain Valley Down Syndrome group. We gather a few times per year to promote inclusion and raise awareness of the wonderful individuals with Down syndrome living in our community. We are all connected through email which allows families to resource information and support. We host seasonal pot lucks and picnics along our beautiful Lake Champlain. Our website serves as a valuable resource for all Down syndrome families. Our largest gathering of the year is our annual Buddy Walk, held here in Burlington each fall. It is a day of wonderful reunions, a celebration of milestones and an opportunity to appreciate the unique beauty and individuality possessed by each of our children with Down syndrome.

Jessica Necessary

Virginia

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My passion is theater. While my full-time job includes supporting our theater curriculum and productions, my passion for theater extends beyond this scope. I adore acting and do so in community theater, occasionally directing, designing costumes, and advertising, too. Lately, I have taken roles within a local haunted attraction. These productions not only enrich the lives of participants in the events, but also the patrons. The patrons are transported to another world where they learn new stories, histories, and cultures and can use their imaginations. My family has been supportive of my acting and has joined me in some productions and the haunted attraction. It is wonderful to see them ease into roles and begin developing their characters. My daughter began gymnastics last year. It was fun to watch, but I noticed Scarlett struggling. I was unsure how to help her since I did not understand how certain movements were done. I figured the best way to help would be to enroll in the adult gymnastics class since I was always interested in gymnastics and wanted to participate. I would then understand how to coach Scarlett when she practices at home and would get to fulfill a dream. Scarlett and I now have a common activity that we can learn and enjoy together and perform in community parades and recitals. We have established new friendships and support systems that will continue to blossom. Having dedicated the last two years to learning the art of clay, I am primarily self-taught and love playing with colors, patterns, and textures. I teach ceramics at the college, but also volunteer to teach clay methods to interested parties and community workshops. My husband and others encouraged me to sell my work, so I started my company, Mud Dragon Pottery. My entire family is interested in working with clay, whether simply hand building, wheel throwing, or glazing. We all love the creative process and seeing the results exit the kiln. When selling at festivals, Scarlett likes to hand out my business cards and pretend she has her own shop.
Every child is unique, with their own wants, needs, ideas, strengths, etc. As such, children should be free to be their natural selves without fear of parental criticism. Creating a positive, nurturing, challenging, and encouraging environment is essential to their growth as this helps provide emotional stability and lets them know their parents care. This environment should be considered a safe space, encouraging children to speak and express feelings without judgement. In doing so, parents create a support structure that may be carried throughout their children’s lives, allowing them to feel their parents are supportive and open to learning about all facets of their children’s lives. While boundaries do need to be set at times to ensure safety and kindness, children should be allowed to be inquisitive and to explore their surrounding world. They should be able to make their own mistakes when possible so they may learn from those experiences and figure out how to counteract making the same or similar missteps in the future. Mistakes should not be viewed as failures; instead, these are opportunities from which children may learn and grow as human beings. It is important to listen to a child’s perspective, try to understand it, and take it into consideration. This helps emphasize critical thinking and reasoning as well as establish a free flow of ideas. Parents should continually endeavor to establish strong bonds with their children so they know they can count on their parents in times of emotional need or crisis.
My passion is theater. While my full-time job includes supporting our theater curriculum and productions, my passion for theater extends beyond this scope. I adore acting and do so in community theater, occasionally directing, designing costumes, and advertising, too. Lately, I have taken roles within a local haunted attraction. These productions not only enrich the lives of participants in the events, but also the patrons. The patrons are transported to another world where they learn new stories, histories, and cultures and can use their imaginations. My family has been supportive of my acting and has joined me in some productions and the haunted attraction. It is wonderful to see them ease into roles and begin developing their characters. My daughter began gymnastics last year. It was fun to watch, but I noticed Scarlett struggling. I was unsure how to help her since I did not understand how certain movements were done. I figured the best way to help would be to enroll in the adult gymnastics class since I was always interested in gymnastics and wanted to participate. I would then understand how to coach Scarlett when she practices at home and would get to fulfill a dream. Scarlett and I now have a common activity that we can learn and enjoy together and perform in community parades and recitals. We have established new friendships and support systems that will continue to blossom. Having dedicated the last two years to learning the art of clay, I am primarily self-taught and love playing with colors, patterns, and textures. I teach ceramics at the college, but also volunteer to teach clay methods to interested parties and community workshops. My husband and others encouraged me to sell my work, so I started my company, Mud Dragon Pottery. My entire family is interested in working with clay, whether simply hand building, wheel throwing, or glazing. We all love the creative process and seeing the results exit the kiln. When selling at festivals, Scarlett likes to hand out my business cards and pretend she has her own shop.

Barbara Watson

West Virginia

BIO

Barbara grew up in a single-family household and had a love for camping, crocheting, braiding hair and playing the violin. Barbara grew up braiding her great grandmother’s hair on Saturday mornings and walking to McDonalds to get her a fish sandwich and strawberry shake. Barbara was a victim of domestic violence much of her life. Barbara is blessed with the love of her daughter and received her 1st college degree in July 2005 in Business Management at the tender age of 45. She currently works for the federal government in her passion and volunteers with the Voices Against Domestic Violence West Virginia & she is the CEO of Thriving Butterflies which both are Christian based nonprofit organizations to aid in stopping domestic violence. Barbara also dedicates her time to Stars that Shine which is a nonprofit that empowers girls in the Eastern Panhandle of West Virginia.
Being raised in abusive household, my philosophy on parenting is simple “pour into your child/ren their friends and all young people you come in contact with at all times. Spend time with your young people, Let your lifestyle be a example of a healthy relationship, Have them volunteer their time to aid in promoting a healthy community, Communication is important but be sure to listen to what they say and react to different topics, Teach your child the importance of giving back to the community. So many kids/young people share things with me because I’m blessed to be a safe space.
I currently volunteer for Voices Against Domestic Violence. This year I participated in our Domestic Violence Awareness Weekend from a block party on Friday evening, a 5K on Saturday and a Empowerment service on Sunday. Event pictures can be found on Facebook at Voices Against Domestic Violence, WV. Provided and set up the decorations for the event. Serve food to the homeless. I am working with youth on life skills, etiquette, and how to promote healthy relationships. I also show support to Stars that Shine, a 501c3 that empowers young girls. I currently just joined the Black Teachers Association-Parent Hub, Jefferson County, WV. My daughter and I volunteer monthly in addition to the nonprofits we volunteer with in the Eastern Panhandle of WV. The impact to the community is spreading the word and letting people know your past doesn’t define who you are and there is aid available.

Patricia Ehlen

Wisconsin

BIO

Patricia Lee Germann was the first born of Leo and Rose Germann. She grew up on a small farm just outside the beautiful resort town of Lake Geneva, WI. She attended a one room schoolhouse for her elementary education and continued her high school education at Lake Geneva High School graduating in 1958. In the summer of 1959, Pat married James Ehlen, the handsome neighbor boy. This marriage brought them seven children, 23 grandchildren and 29 great-grandchildren. Jim and Pat raised their seven children on a dairy farm near Elkhorn. WI. In the fall of 1987 when the youngest child was in 7th grade, Pat started nursing school to fulfill a longtime dream. She graduated in 1990 at age 50! Pat worked at Aurora Lakeland Medical Center as a Registered Nurse for 15 years. She retired in 2005 and is enjoying her large family.
When raising seven children the first thing one learns as a parent, there is not one philosophy that fits all. But there are values that apply to all. Our parenting was faith based, with an emphasis on high moral values and respect for themselves and others. We attended church services weekly, and all our children attended regardless of their age. We felt it was important to give our children a religious education, to learn at an early age right from wrong and there were consequences for bad choices. We emphasized life is not a free ride, rather they must work hard to achieve success. All our children took part in school sports, and we were fortunate they had excellent coaches who reinforced our values and rewarded commitment. Being a farm family, 4- H and FFA played an influential role in the upbringing of our children. These organizations also taught hard work brought success. Today, all our children are industrious workers and are successful in their choice of occupation. As a mother I tried to follow the rule, “if it won’t matter in 10 years, let it go” , but if their choice would affect their future, I could be quite forceful. Were our children perfect? No, they were not, but not one of our children made life altering mistakes that caused them to ruin their chances at a good life. As a mother, I felt if I made a parenting mistake, and I made plenty, it was important to acknowledge it. Saying I was sorry was not always easy, but highly effective.
In the fall of 2004, our 7-year-old grandson Kade and son-in-law David were in a horrific motor vehicle accident. Kade was in an induced coma for 10 days and hung on to life by a thread. He did survive, but not without lifelong disabilities. Our son-in-law was off work for 6 months and sustained long lasting effects as well. Following this accident, our family was blown away by the outpouring of our community support, both financially and emotionally. Many stepped forward organizing several fundraisers. Kade’s mother, our daughter Jill, called me one evening asking if I would help her organize a non-profit organization designed to help other families who were experiencing medical situations as a way of thanking all those who had helped her family. Thus, was born Kade’s Klassic, a once-a-year fundraiser for families who were going through tough times. This coming summer Kade’s Klassic will be helping its 20th family. You may find more information regarding this non-profit by visiting Kade’s Klassic webpage. As I mentioned previously, all our children participated in 4-H. The leaders for the various projects were volunteers, usually parents of the 4-H members. I was the leader for the Food project. My group consisted of high school students. Oh, the fun we had! To this day I will run into one of my 4-H girls, and we will reminisce about our successes and failures. Their favorite event was cooking and serving an entire meal for a group of residents from a local nursing home. I was never sure who enjoyed the day more, the residents or the girls who cooked the meal. Hopefully this instilled the desire to serve others who have no way of repaying you. One of the most satisfying missions I was ever part of was helping a fellow choir member. We discovered quite by accident she was living in extreme poverty. Our choir was instrumental in moving her to a safer environment, furnishing her new apartment with slightly used items and getting food assistance. Seeing her surprised reaction was the only thanks we needed. She is thriving to this day.
Headshot of Joslynn Skelton, 2025 National Mother of the Year announced at the american Mothers National Convention

Joslynn Skelton

California

BIO

Joslynn Jarrett was born in Bakersfield, CA, where she developed a love for musical theater and dreamed of performing on Broadway. Her career path took an unexpected turn when, during her junior year of college, she became pregnant and embraced motherhood as a single mom at 20. Despite the challenges, Joslynn continued college and focused on building her career. In 2007, she married Andrew Skelton, and the couple later moved to Ventura, CA. Joslynn’s passion for community service led her to the non-profit sector, where she became the youngest Executive Director ever hired by the YMCA. However, her greatest passion grew after the birth of her third daughter, who was born with a serious heart condition requiring multiple surgeries. Joslynn became a four-time published author and traveled across the U.S., teaching children about love, acceptance, and resilience, sharing her story of hope and strength.
I would describe my parenting style as beautifully organized chaos. From the moment I became a mother at 20, I learned to embrace the unpredictability of life. Raising my first daughter as a single mom meant sacrificing the carefree college life and accepting the weight of responsibility. While my friends were living without a care in the world, I discovered the true meaning of sacrifice, love, and resilience. The moment my oldest daughter was born, I knew motherhood was my calling. At 30, my second daughter was born, and just 18 months later, our third daughter arrived with a serious congenital heart defect, she was missing the left side of her heart. This journey taught me not to sweat the small stuff, to cherish every day, and that life is precious. It showed me that what truly mattered was not material things, but the love and togetherness we shared as a family. At 38, we welcomed our fourth daughter, who healed our hearts after all we had been through. Raising children in different generations—being a mother at 20, 30, and almost 40—has been a wild ride, but one I wouldn’t trade for anything. We have always made sure each daughter has the space to pursue her own passions, while supporting and cheering each other on. We are open and honest with our children, especially regarding our daughter’s medical condition. I teach them the importance of hard work, love, acceptance, and resilience—values that guide our family every day.
Over the years, I have been fortunate to be involved in activities that not only positively impacted my life but also made a difference in the lives of others in our community. One of the most rewarding has been my work with the Ronald McDonald House Family Room in Ventura. As a member of the advisory board, I helped establish the first-ever partnership in the U.S. between a Ronald McDonald Family Room and a county medical center. Last year, we served 1,765 families, provided 1,325 meals, and supported 738 families through our hospitality cart. Having personally experienced the importance of a safe, supportive space for families during medical crises, I feel deeply honored to volunteer and donate to this vital resource in our community. Another impactful experience has been my work with the Salvation Army Board of Directors. I played an integral role in launching the first mobile eye clinic in Ventura County, providing free eye care and exams to underserved communities. This initiative has allowed countless individuals, especially low- income families, to access critical eye care that would otherwise be out of reach, improving their overall health and well-being. As a published author of the “Charlie the Courageous” book series, I have been able to combine my love for writing with my advocacy for children facing serious medical conditions. Through this series, I’ve donated over 20,000 books nationwide and partnered with organizations such as the American Heart Association, Sisters By Heart, and Save The Heartbeat. Hosting events like honoring Luca DeLaGarza at an LA Galaxy game, where we gave away 400 books to children in attendance, has brought attention and support to children living with conditions like Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome and Leukemia, with plans to expand to other conditions like Autism, Down Syndrome, Type 1 Diabetes, and Bell’s Palsy. Each of these activities has brought fulfillment to my life, leaving a positive and lasting impact on my family and the community.

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